Would you rather dump someone or be dumped?

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And how many times have you been dumped and did you break up with someone?

nbbn5 · Accepted Answer

never dated (you know ;p )
i will dump a girl but it depends as in if the other person is not loyal or hiding something important from me or if cheating on me ( or fooling around with two or more guys at a time) i maybe will dump her, but i will dump someone on a solid and justified reason not otherwise as some people dump others on the basis of small things like girls sometimes dump guys if they have a small d*ck lolll
if she dumps me for a genuine reason i will respect that thing and will improve on it otherwise i will just forget her

EricTheWanderer · Accepted Answer

I've been dumped twice. I've been the dumper twice. In my case of being the dumper I tried to be fair, but when I got dumped (especially with the last one) she tried to rub it in my face and talk bad about me on her social media.

SteppingOnRoses · Accepted Answer

what about neither? both are awful things to do

although i think being dumped is more painful, because of the pain of rejection.

but if you broke up with someone while still loving them... then i think that is also quite painful for the one doing the breaking up.

MaryCherryBerry · Accepted Answer

I've never been dumped but I feel bad every time I dump someone. it depends on how the person treated me. if he was an ass then I have no problem hurting him but if I messed up then I'm fine with him having that power to dump me, it all depends

Alex31 · Accepted Answer

I have dumped twice and was personally dumped once. To be honest, while getting dumped ruins confidence, dumping someone makes me get eternal guilty feelings. Better to shake confidence than to feel like a monster.

peachblossomluck · Accepted Answer

If they dump me they aren't going to stalk or blame me. If they try to get me back afterwards, I'll tell it's their fault too bad so sad. Basically it's a clean break up.

MarkRet · Answer

I've never dumped anyone, but I've been dumped. It's painful.

Vii08 · Answer

Be dumped. I wouldn't be the first to give up, and I do not want to regret letting go.

iUpmChallanged · Answer

I would rather dump a guy. As most of the people don't have personality like me. I have never been dumped or broke up with someone as I have never been in a relationship. 😅

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

I wouldn't want be Dumped or be the one to Dump a girl that is hard one , I think just taking a break is the best choice Than take things from there to see where they go really hard to say.

AleDeEurope · Answer

I don't know, I've only done the dumping, I've never been dumped, so I've only experienced one scenario.

BlakeC · Answer

Both are tough. But I think it's tougher to be the one who dumps the other, especially if the person doesn't expect it really.

EvilAngel114 · Answer

The dumpee. I'm a pro in this department. May as well keep my streak going.

rajpotchh · Answer

not once but would surely b dumped by my family if they come to know that i m trying to get a girl in my life... and obviously by that particular girl too

Yumix · Answer

Dump someone. It might be a shitty thing to do but it means that you have no feelings for him anymore. If you're the one who got dumped you will feel shit for a long time probably

HonestGirlAlways · Answer

I've never been directly dumped and I've never directly broken up with anyone lmao

Shotgun · Answer

How in the HELL is dumpee rated so high? They both suck, and I hate both, but really... dumping someone builds self-esteem, while being dumped destroys it.

Anonymous · Answer

Dumper for sure. Hate to admit I have been dumped, then went out of my way to get back together so I could dump her. It is like taking the power back.

JohnReedLOL2 · Answer

I've never been the dumper... but I sure as hell would like to be.

Anonymous · Answer

I've been on both ends of this... personally I hate hurting people and I hate being hurt... BUT if I had to choose one I'd pick the dumper.

slutsdontgetoral · Answer

If I really want out would rather be dumped. No guilt.

naraku · Answer

I have ended all but 2 which turns out to be a total of 5! So I have dumped only once more ! *woot, woot !*

Chesirkitty34 · Answer

Rathet be dumped because every time I try to end a relationship regardless of the reason, still a horrible person. Even if they did something screwed up Im the one to blame l. o. l fml

Ethicalview · Answer

I would like to get dumped rather than feeling guilty in the later part of my life

Pizzalover101 · Answer

Doesn't matter cuz if it isn't working then time to move on

xMiaxBuerx · Answer

I've never been dumped, I'm always the dumper.

rezagrizzly · Answer

I would never want to be the dumper

Hater007 · Answer

either way it doesn't bother me

jacquesvol · Answer

In both cases, it leaves a bad feeling.

Rangers · Answer

I'd rather end it myself

TallAnon · Answer

I've never been dumped, but it seems easier to me.

Halucinator · Answer

get dumped dumping's not my style

Anonymous · Answer

I have only ever been the dumper.

max_spy · Answer

dumpee. you?

Arya_Christ · Answer

never dated.

devildamo · Answer

i dont like either if im hpnest

Anonymous · Answer

TBO I would be like to be dumpee not dumper

omgjassy · Answer

Rather be dumped

Anonymous · Answer

i always dump em.

IHaveLists · Answer

Be the dumper

ccal28 · Answer

dumpee

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