So I just found out my girlfriend used to casually fuck guys?

[Anonymous]

I can't cope, she's not the girl for me. I didn't knew she was a slut.
I still really like her but i know she's not what i want. I need some advice on how should i go on about ending things.

[iiKayy]

If you are so sure of your case, why even bother to go on here to ask?

YOU can't handle it, so YOU should have just brought it up the moment she told you.

Personally I wouldn't mind but what matters most is how much you care about the girl, if you can't even get over this thing then that should tell you enough about how you feel about her

[InfoBot]

Just have the courage of your convictions and be honest. Tell her that the fact that she has slept with a lot of guys makes you think differently of her and that you don't see a future with her. If you are bold enough to judge her for it then you should be bold enough to tell her straight.

[witherwing]

Geez. Ease up on the slut shaming. Casual sex makes no one a slut! It's okay, if you don't want to date someone whose values are different than yours, but to call people sluts... Smh.

[Asker]

Slut is a woman who sleeps around.
I don't mean to insult, its just what she is, she's by definition a slut. Women are always saying it doesn't matter what guys think then why do they care when guys call them sluts? Just let guys say whatever they want.

[witherwing]

Slut means a prostitute, a person who takes money for sex. A woman who sleeps around is a woman who likes sex. Get your definitions straight, before you start to insult people. What if I called you a manwhore? Same thing. I'm getting sick of people justifying the word slut like it isn't insulting.

[Asker]

If you called me a manwhore i'd be proud of myself
however if you called a woman a whore she'd feel insulted.
That's the different between men and women.
In theory every different women i have sex with with gets my seed and raises my kids.
By genes are being spread. Women having sex is pretty much only going to get you an STD. No genes are spread. Men just have it better.

[Asker]

and here's your definition of slut.
https://i.imgur.com/MajC83B.png
so much or getting my facts straight.

[witherwing]

... written by men. Oh my god this world is a mess with double standards so that stupid people can get away with everything.

[Asker]

'Written by men'
i took you for being smarter than that.
Everything around you is built and put there by a man. This website is designed by a man, your phone/laptop you're using right now is made by a man. Your house was made by a man. Guess you should just stop using everything made by men then.

[witherwing]

I like men. Just not stupid men.

[Asker]

Exactly. You know yourself your arguments were pathetic.

[witherwing]

I know, I'm too tired for this shit. Can't really make valid points at one in the morning. Chauvinism just annoys the shit out of me, same as double standards.

[Asker]

Lol i know the feeling. I had the craziest day, so i found out this girl i thought i'd marry someday actually turned out to be a slut. Spent all my evening banging my head about it and now i'm tired as fuck too. Definitely not in the mood to argue especially not with an empowered feminist who just spews shit out her mouth every time she opens it. Crazy, right?

[witherwing]

Oh yeah, calling every stupid woman a feminist. That will work too.

[JunkIntr0vert]

Dump her. People who do casual sex don't deserve a loyal significant other.

[AynonOMouse]

She is by definition a slut.
Tell her that you are morally incompatible because of her actions and cannot be with her.
People that have casual sex do not deserve to have a good loyal SO. They don't think of sex as part of an emotional connection and are therefor more prone to cheat because sex isn't a big deal to those kinds of people.

[Anonymous]

was she hiding it from you? did she say how many? I know it can be painful to go through that thinking you know someone and then finding out something big like that. But does she love you? are you two good together? knowing someones past is important but be careful that it doesn't keep you from having a great future.

[lMike]

justdo it bro. i feel ya i been there. just gotta do it. its hard breaking up with people... also fun :)

[normielover6969xD]

Just tell her she doesn't respect her body and dump her

[CT_CD]

Break up with her immediately

[Anonymous]

Grow up, that doesn't mean shit

[Anonymous]

You can't make a wife out of a hoe

[disgustingweebtrash]

Dump her

[MrBooker]

the past is where fools and wise ones are born

[Asker]

If it doesn't bother you its cool.
But it does bother me.
By the way that's pretty stupid thing to say.
Past is important.
If a a person murdered someone in the past you don't just let that go.