girlfriend had casual sex in the past?

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend of 1 month now finally told me after all my questions that she had 2 ons and 1 friends with benefits.
I dont do casual and so i dont want a girlfriend who does it.
I dont care that it was in her past and that she might have changed, i really dont care, it was her decision in the past now she will take the consequences.

And so i will break up with her to find someone compitable with me. (Btw. I didn't have had any sexual contact with her yet, because i wanted to wait till i get to know her better)

So. How can i break up the best way without hurting her? She really loves me a lot and this for a long time even before we started dating.

Oh yeah, for all the people who will call me jugdmental jerk, sorry but i have my preferences like everyone else.

[hahahmm]

Why were you too dumb to find out before you made her your girlfriend? Sounds to me like you entered into the relationship in bad faith as you did not really view her as a girlfriend but only wanted her to trust you enough to answer your nagging questions, probably while you falsely claimed you would not hold it against her. If you even did half if that it makes you dishonest and way worse than whatever you think of her. Oh yeah, if you call me a judgmental jerk, sorry but I have my opinion like everyone else.

[Asker]

Well, i asked her about her past at the beginning of us dating. She didn't wanted to talk about her past and i understood it. I told her that i wouldn't date her if she had casual sex. So because she didn't wanted to talk about her past , i asked her about her views on casual sex, and she claimed that she would never have casual sex. Now after a month it seems like she meant she will never have casual sex again.

[hahahmm]

She did not lie. You asked the wrong question. And most attractive women who are available have had casual sex at least once so good luck with that.

[Asker]

Well then they are not worth my time.

[momo770]

what's your question?

[Asker]

How to break up with her without hurting her too much of course.

[momo770]

honestly and directly

[Anonymous]

You are so pathetic

[Asker]

Sorry Darling but you know, this is what preferences are for, to see if you are compitable with someone. And in this case we werent compitable, she just wasn't honest enough with me and wasted an entire month of my prescious time.