If you boyfriend or girlfriend had casual sex in the past do you care about it?

[Anonymous]

What do you think

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Thanks for the answers

[slatyb]

Not at all. How does that affect me? I would be more concerned if they had a history of treating no other people callously.

[Recurrence]

I care about what they do with me, their sexual past doesn’t matter, unless they have like trauma or an std

[ItsMeItsMe1989]

BIASED MHO

especially since she has the option to choose one more guy and at least 2 girls

[Recurrence]

@ItsMeItsMe1989 I don’t get what you’re saying.

[TruthBringer]

That's a clear indication that she is of low-value/low-quality. And that alone is an absolute dealbreaker. There is a difference between a woman who has sex within committed relationships and one who has casual sex.

[Asker]

I think it is acceptable for Men too. I prefer Men like you prefer women.

[Inexpensivefurniture]

My partner's sexual past doesn't matter to me unless if effects me or our relationship. If they have an STI then I want to know so I can protect myself. Beyond that, I don't really care or need to know about my partner's sexual past. It doesn't bother me but it doesn't interest me either.

[Anonymous]

Being the brutally honest person, the real answer is "It Depends."

Guy won't say it, but having a high body count is seen as a warning sign for potential disloyalty, low self worth and/or father issues.

Casual sex isn't the same as having prior relationships, and if you were allowing casual access before, guys will wonder why paid access (relationships) would be worth the investment.

And yes, this can be applied to men too; women are far more judgmental of one another than men, which is where most of the shaming cones from.

[Cathy7734]

No, I wouldn't care about it. A lot of people move out of the house and go to college. They are exploring. What is this? What is that? It's natural to explore sex. It's only a deal-breaker if they contracted an STD from it.

[Konkonmath]

Yes because you yourself are a skank

[IveGotNoName]

Yes, it would bother me a little, only because I couldn't do that, not because they should feel bad about doing it or anything, it's just not in my nature

[Miristheiss]

Yes,
That grosses me out and I find it sleazy character.
It was always a hard deal breaker.

Certain lines aren't to be crossed. Once crossed they went on my NEVER list as far as dating & marriage.

Sleeping around, one night stands, sex work of any kind ever, threesomes, addicted to hard drugs.

Deal breaker.

[RACSKC0B]

There's absolutely nothing that anyone can do to change what they did yesterday. So there's no point in having an issue with someone's past that you weren't a part of.

[Anonymous]

There's nothing such a casual sex , sex is not like hi hello baby. The more you have sex the less bond you will have later more sex make you lose piece of you every time there's a reason why it's so forbidden in almost every religion.
I myself avoid sex though I can get many women at the gym but I know later if I found the good quality girl I will never have bond or commit with her. Once you ride the cock carousel there's no way to back all cock carousel Riders will end up facing the wall

[I-C3_ME]

I'd rather not know how many sexual partners they had, ignorance is bliss they say. However i would like to know if they had an STD cuz.. i don't want that

[bobalife]

Doesn’t matter except they’re still in contact with those they slept with or carry STD, but other than that I just want their dedication and love

[ChrisMaster69]

Nope, not a concern really.

everyone has a history, it’s often best not asking or prying.

somethings can be taken out of context.

[FinalFantasyBro]

I wouldn't be bothered if they had sex with anyone before we became a thing but I would be concerned if she kept that up after we officially became an item.

[Anonymous]

Yes. Shows me that they don’t hold the same values as me.

[JBlade]

I agree. Sucks knowing that these values make up a small minority within people.

[Sheyhoney]

Personally, I cry thinking that he’s fucked another bitch 🥲😂

[Dinklex3]

No, lol.
As long as they're std free and committed now.

[Sia_nee]

IDGAF About many things and that would probably be one one the many things.

[Minamikun]

I wouldn't care because it what happens on the past, stays on the past

[Jamie05rhs]

If she had casual sex, then she wouldn't be my girlfriend. I don't date people like that.

[humpbackjack]

The past is done and gone. Your past just tells where you’ve been not where you’re going

[Dvchill]

Anything before me is like the Old Testament in the Bible (it doesn’t count [in christianity]). Not that I’m a Jesus figure. More a youthful Santa 😂

[Anonymous]

Yes. It would bother me.
Any previous partners are a problem. The more their are the harder it is to look past. None is best.

[genericname85]

No, cause I don't think that has anything to do with my current relationship with her.

[Micky26]

I don't care about a girl's past, it's for her to know and share if she wants.

[LonewolfMeme]

As long as he gets tested before we did anything no I don’t.

[es20490446e]

How much do they prefer having sex only with a single partner they love?

[zagor]

If they did it for 5 years it might get to me. Otherwise nah.

[Joshua0213]

No as long as she didn't have STD's but wouldn't care about her being casual before

[SmokinAces2000]

No why would I care when I have casual sex all the time

[nogirfrienknowlove]

I would not care because i am not interested in anything sexual most guys are wondering if they could spend of their lives with who they are with.

[daddy_issues_69]

No because it was before we were dating yk I have no say

[ItsMeItsMe1989]

just means, they're more likely to have had a kid, or an std or legal problems

[Anonymous]

It matters and I wouldn't be with someone like that. There's too many leftist cucks on here that don't care how many dicks a girl has taken. Not me, I care.

[Anonymous]

I personally won't be with anyone who has done casual sex.

[Tom69688]

No many of us have a history but you put it behind you when you get serious

[Anonymous]

I wouldn’t be with this girl. She probably sees guys as disposable. It’s also like, she fucked guys and now she wants to settle down. She may be nice but no thanks.

[Lowiu]

Not id it was normal sex with adults

[No_biryani]

Its in the past, why would i care?

[karaspara]

I wouldn't care personally

[TacosRAwesome]

No because I would have if I could have.

[Babygirl_S]

Yes it means he is a slut and I don't want him.

[This_Is_My_Opinion8]

Not at all. Why should anyone?

[Anonymous]

i don't want to know about it.

[stargazeraug1989]

No, I don't. I'd actually encourage it.

[Wise4myage]

No, because Its silly to do that.

[Unicorn_lover_2002]

If it's the past why dwell on it now

[FunkyMonkee]

Why should I?

[annie420to]

No, it would not be a issue

[stiletto08]

no coz I've had it before

[Tiptoetamm]

No it's in the past

[Anonymous]

Yes, I am looking for a virgin like me.

[Hathor]

Nope

[magiusX26]

nope

[Anonymous]

Possibly. Depends.

[Asker]

Depends on what?

[Opinion Owner]

Their age. How it happened, with how many. All that.

[Asker]

Okay thank you for your answer 🙏🏻

[Opinion Owner]

Did you have casual sex? Are you asking because of that or just to know?

[Asker]

No i haven’t had casual sex. I just wondered.

[Opinion Owner]

Okay. Cool.

[Asker]

Did you?

[Opinion Owner]

That's a private thing isn't it? That's better discussed in a private chat or something😅

[RebeccaSJ]

No, I don't.

[Pterodon]

Couldn’t care less

[888theGreat]

Deal breaker

[Slim57]

Depends how much