If you boyfriend or girlfriend had casual sex in the past do you care about it?

[Anonymous]

What do you think

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Thanks for the answers

[slatyb]

Not at all. How does that affect me? I would be more concerned if they had a history of treating no other people callously.

[Recurrence]

I care about what they do with me, their sexual past doesn’t matter, unless they have like trauma or an std

[ItsMeItsMe1989]

BIASED MHO

especially since she has the option to choose one more guy and at least 2 girls

[Recurrence]

@ItsMeItsMe1989 I don’t get what you’re saying.

[TruthBringer]

That's a clear indication that she is of low-value/low-quality. And that alone is an absolute dealbreaker. There is a difference between a woman who has sex within committed relationships and one who has casual sex.

[Asker]

I think it is acceptable for Men too. I prefer Men like you prefer women.

[Inexpensivefurniture]

My partner's sexual past doesn't matter to me unless if effects me or our relationship. If they have an STI then I want to know so I can protect myself. Beyond that, I don't really care or need to know about my partner's sexual past. It doesn't bother me but it doesn't interest me either.

[Anonymous]

Being the brutally honest person, the real answer is "It Depends."

Guy won't say it, but having a high body count is seen as a warning sign for potential disloyalty, low self worth and/or father issues.

Casual sex isn't the same as having prior relationships, and if you were allowing casual access before, guys will wonder why paid access (relationships) would be worth the investment.

And yes, this can be applied to men too; women are far more judgmental of one another than men, which is where most of the shaming cones from.

[Cathy7734]

No, I wouldn't care about it. A lot of people move out of the house and go to college. They are exploring. What is this? What is that? It's natural to explore sex. It's only a deal-breaker if they contracted an STD from it.

[Konkonmath]

Yes because you yourself are a skank

[IveGotNoName]

Yes, it would bother me a little, only because I couldn't do that, not because they should feel bad about doing it or anything, it's just not in my nature

[Miristheiss]

Yes,
That grosses me out and I find it sleazy character.
It was always a hard deal breaker.

Certain lines aren't to be crossed. Once crossed they went on my NEVER list as far as dating & marriage.

Sleeping around, one night stands, sex work of any kind ever, threesomes, addicted to hard drugs.

Deal breaker.

[RACSKC0B]

There's absolutely nothing that anyone can do to change what they did yesterday. So there's no point in having an issue with someone's past that you weren't a part of.

[Anonymous]

There's nothing such a casual sex , sex is not like hi hello baby. The more you have sex the less bond you will have later more sex make you lose piece of you every time there's a reason why it's so forbidden in almost every religion.
I myself avoid sex though I can get many women at the gym but I know later if I found the good quality girl I will never have bond or commit with her. Once you ride the cock carousel there's no way to back all cock carousel Riders will end up facing the wall

[I-C3_ME]

I'd rather not know how many sexual partners they had, ignorance is bliss they say. However i would like to know if they had an STD cuz.. i don't want that

[bobalife]

Doesn’t matter except they’re still in contact with those they slept with or carry STD, but other than that I just want their dedication and love

[ChrisMaster69]

Nope, not a concern really.

everyone has a history, it’s often best not asking or prying.

somethings can be taken out of context.

[FinalFantasyBro]

I wouldn't be bothered if they had sex with anyone before we became a thing but I would be concerned if she kept that up after we officially became an item.

[Sheyhoney]

Personally, I cry thinking that he’s fucked another bitch 🥲😂

[Dinklex3]

No, lol.
As long as they're std free and committed now.

[Sia_nee]

IDGAF About many things and that would probably be one one the many things.

[Minamikun]

I wouldn't care because it what happens on the past, stays on the past

[Anonymous]

Yes. Shows me that they don’t hold the same values as me.

[JBlade]

I agree. Sucks knowing that these values make up a small minority within people.

[humpbackjack]

The past is done and gone. Your past just tells where you’ve been not where you’re going

[Jamie05rhs]

If she had casual sex, then she wouldn't be my girlfriend. I don't date people like that.

[Dvchill]

Anything before me is like the Old Testament in the Bible (it doesn’t count [in christianity]). Not that I’m a Jesus figure. More a youthful Santa 😂