Realised my fuckbuddy of 2.5 years has a girlfriend?

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I’ve had a fuckbuddy who I’ve been seeing for the last 2.5 years on & off. At the beginning I didn’t know what I wanted with him, I just wanted to go with the flow & see where it went. It ended up just being a fuckbuddy arrangement & at first I thought I was gonna be okay with it. But then I got feelings for him very quickly, & he also kept telling me he wanted a relationship with me & that he loved me & had feelings for me, even though his actions didn’t match. I tried to ignore that though & part of me kinda believed him & had some hope.

We had a bit of an argument last year & he deleted me & we didn’t talk for about 6 months. Then we coincidentally bumped into each other at the mall & he saw me & started talking to me again.

We went back to sleeping with each other up until about March this year, but he never contacted me after our last time (2 months ago) & neither did I. I thought that maybe he was just sleeping with other girls & had forgotten about me. I also know that he’s the owner of a barbershop at the mall & that it was under construction for the last 2 months & being renovated, so I thought him not seeing me for those 2 months had something to do with that. I thought maybe he was working somewhere else & didn’t have time to see me.

But, to my horror, I had a look at the Instagram page for the new barbershop, & I noticed that most of the followers were guys, & there were only a few girls following it - a young girl, another girl with the same last name & a woman with the same last name. I also noticed that the guy reactivated his Instagram after 6 months of not having it, & in his bio, he had the letter A, & the girl following the barbershops name started with the letter A. I looked their names up on facebook & realised they’ve been commenting on each other’s pictures since 2019 & the other 2 girls are her sister & the mum. So that means this girl is his girlfriend & has been this whole time & I was the side chick!!
Realised my fuckbuddy of 2.5 years has a girlfriend?
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