my ex boyfriend broke up with me a month ago we have been on and off since this last time we were off he said he needed 3 weeks before he would talk to me. I didn't understand why so I kept texting him blowing up his phone now he is mad and is saying mean things like he is over and f*** you and he never wants to talk to me again. I think he is just saying that because he is mad from me blowing up his phone do you think if he still has feelings that he will come back if I stop contacting him and giving space and or do you think he won't come back and what he is saying is true
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Well the thing is you didn't leave him alone when you broke up, you bombarded him with texts, never giving him time to think and maybe have a chance at possibly to sort things out. I know that you did what you did cos you were most likely hurt and confused and wanted answers and for him to communicate with you, whilst he wanted time away to think, time to figure out the next move.
Bombarding him with texts only inflamed him, and made him angry at you for doing what you did. You now need to give him a wide berth and not communicate with him, you most likely will have to wait for him to communicate with you, if he doesn't contact you after a month then you can just send one text saying just wanted to say hello to you and to ask how you are? Just leave it at that and wait for his response. If he doesn't send one, then I am afraid you will have to move on. You can't spend all your life waiting for him and wondering if he will come back.
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