What does it mean when ex boyfriend said I ruined his life?

[angrydog]

Please don’t say why do I care I just want to know what this means. Thanks

[Anonymous]

Both of you are responsible for your actions. He had the decision and still has the opportunity to make his life better but he is playing the victim card. He should move on and so should you. Or you may really have ruined his life like stole his money, killed and family. If thats the case then you should be in jail. If not then don't contact him and move on from your life. We need more info on the relationship.

[angrydog]

He did tell me he is still in love with me

[jahbulon85]

You ruined his life

Could mean many things

He gave up opporyunities for you that he might not be able yo get back

He feels his time with you was wasted

Jusr the worst thing be could think of at the time

No1 here will be able to tell u the answer because we dont know what u went though

[samhradh_leannan]

I think you can probably guess at this better than we can, since you know a lot more details about what actually happened between you. My guess is that either you actually did something to, you know, ruin his life, or he is simply expressing how upset he is over the breakup.

[angrydog]

Would this indicate he still has feelings for me? I said this exact same statement to him a couple months after he broke up with me and it was because I still had very strong feelings for him and I still do after a year and six months I went no contact for 6 months blocked his number and we saw each other again a couple days ago and he was texting me saying I ruined his life and just being mean to me over text after I haven’t contacted him in six months but he still wanted to see me so we hung out no sex and it was amazing but he was making some mean remarks to me in person like he did through text I just want to know how Can I get him to forgive me I’m moving back in town and he knows this I want to make things right but he is stubborn and it’s like he can’t forget and just forgive me because I have forgiven him. Do you think he still loves me

[angrydog]

He isn’t mean all the time but when he is it really hurts me and makes me feel extremely sad because it hurts me to and at the time I didn’t mean to hurt him it’s like he is nice and then mean to me. I love him so much and I’m afraid I am going to lose him I’ve tried really hard to move on like seriously tried and it’s just not happenin. I really want him back

[samhradh_leannan]

If he’s mean so often, then I’m not sure why you’d want to get back with him or get him to forgive you.

[Karnak09]

It's because he sat down abd thought about what your relationship gave him. Maybe it was great but the fun wasn't worst the price I suppose. I don't know him, but maybe he lost some friends? The contact of his family?

[dropkicknj13]

It means he feels you ruined his life, pretty direct statement lol

[angrydog]

Does that mean he still has feelings or not?

[dropkicknj13]

It could, or it could just mean he feels you torn everything apart on your way out. Hard to say without actually knowing him and having context

[angrydog]

Why is my breakup so hard to get over? He broke up with me because I said something I didn’t mean. I went no contact for 6 months after keeping in touch with him for a year and I saw him in person and he keeps saying I’m full of shit it’s like he is nice to me then will be mean to me

[dropkicknj13]

Do you mean hard for you or for him? Sounds like he's not over it, and it makes him a bit unstable emotionally

[MackToday]

Hard to say without knowing why he said such a thing.

[false]

it means that he wants to marry you and have 8 children

[rskinney]

He's bitter about your breakup.

[SuccessfulHornDog]

Do you have children together?