Me and my ex boyfriend parted on good terms but we have the same circle of friends so we see each other all the time.
Every time we are in the same place he mocks me and makes fun of me and tries to get all our friends to mock me too.
Two days ago, I was at a dinner with him and our friends and I was telling everyone about a time that I accidentally sent a message to someone that I wasn't meant to send a message to, anyway, my friends were having a good laugh and then my ex turns and says 'nothing you do is an accident, it's all deliberate, you like messing with people, you think it's fun' and then he laughed.
After that dinner I sent him a private message saying 'I would appreciate it if you would stop mocking me, hating on me, being rude to and about me and disrespecting me, I ask that you please leave me alone'.
He messaged back 'it's hard for me, I don't know how to communicate with you, it's difficult having any kind of contact with you'.
I asked 'why is it difficult? It isn't difficult for me! We went our separate ways over a year ago and I've put all that behind me, I really want us to move past all that and forward as friends, is that possible?'
But he didn't reply.
Does any one have any ideas as to what this guy is thinking?
It was a mutual break up and there was no arguing or anything, why is he being like this to me?
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Stop hanging out with your ex-boyfriend if he is willing to treat you so badly than it was a clear sign the breakup was needed, your ex is literally the opposite of a gentleman.
Also it's weird you decided to shared the exact same friend group with your ex-boyfreind maybe next time when you are in a romantic relationship try to separate your boyfriends and friends.