What are the reasons why most of my ex boyfriends were bad men but still contracted me via Facebook or Instagram?

[SeaStorm1]

I’m not interested in any bad men and for some reason it seems like all my ex-boyfriends did almost the same thing about contacting me on facebook and when i meant i want break i very much ment i want to break up. not take a break. I already did move on. The other did similar things like that one player that I did search a few facebook to know he was a bad person and I was rejected and put him in friendzone. i blocked all my ex boyfriends. When you are not interested in any bad guys, they seem to be more interested in me and more drawn to me even though I don’t want them or I know they are bad guys and I'm not interested in any of them. I prefer honest men , respectful men, open minded men and trustworthy men that I'm more interested in. older men that age 30+ you already lost you chance with me. i’m not that interested in anymore in older men since i also has bad experience with them and they seem to be too sturblem and stuck in they own ways. i met through online dating and is statement a lie. they did say i wanting a long term relationship and after i met up they seem to not interested being in a long term relationship at all. older age 30 men are not interested in dating younger women that has a baby face. I rejected only two men and one man did reject me too. Yep i did reject my ex boyfriend when some of them did ask me out but I said no. One ex boyfriend asked me out when I was in college and I said no since he was also a cheater. another ex boyfriend did as me out on instagram and i said no and you are a cheater. Two ex-boyfriends tried to contact me on facebook and I blocked them. I’m just wondering why i’m not interested in dating bad men but seem to get bad men to seem to being drawn

[RoseySarah]

More there are just bad men who "want to date" but just want sex!

There are so many awful bad men online and in person it is so hard to tell a real one from a bad loser!

Got so lucky with mine! Would never guess that I'd get so lucky!

Try bumble might work for you also!

Hun really it's not you attract bad men just have to look through the trash guys for a diamond 💎.

Also losers have no bad feelings so they will easily approach you and spam you and contact you for sex! Like they are doing!

They are thirsty so they want their ex... even if you never gave them anything... for me instant reason to block them... it's over don't come thirsty or try to message me...

[SeaStorm1]

They didn't say anything about sex part from one man that said sexual relationship and long term relationship's off men that want to be sugar daddy that what I already did got from bumble. I did meet all men in real life that I have mentioned that I already did meet up with one in real life and some men in real life are just like one that I met through online dating. I also did meet guys in real life and I'm not even in college anymore but also did meet some of my ex bfs there and we're also bad and cheaters

[RoseySarah]

Then it's just bad luck you have not had a good one you will meet someone amazing! Make you easily forget all those bad guys!

Your not the issue the guys are! Take time testing them seeing how they are like your doing!

There is a wonderful guy out there who will treat you right!

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Bad men take to Facebook and Instagram and look for sex, but you think they are nice guys for a while.

[SeaStorm1]

I met bad men in real life when I was in college most of my ex-boyfriends were bad men and some were cheaters. I went to special learning disabilities college. Only metup with older men that I. met through a dating apps like Badoo and dating sites

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Thanks for MHO :)

[BoopBoopBeep]

So... you're shocked that bad people are on the internet?

[SeaStorm1]

No but I also got bad experience with being through college to that is real life and did had bad experience with friendship and relationship to

[BoopBoopBeep]

Seems the common denominator is you. Why do you pick shite people to hang out with/associate with?

[SeaStorm1]

I don't pick shit people. They just seem to be and I seem to get them a lot no matter what I'm doing.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Well you're not getting them because of cosmic alignment, so either you're picking shite people or you're not kicking shite people out of your life fast enough, because we all run into them, but you're on here asking a question about "what are the reasons" so it seems that you're trying to take accountability and change the cycle. If you're just here to vent, never mind then.

[SeaStorm1]

i did these and change fucking nothing and still get shit people anyway. i's always kicking rejected them, i said mention in my detail i you read it. i still get shit people still. accountability kinda but still ended up getting shit people still. no matter what i'm doing so. changing doesn't shit. older mare more shit.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Ah yes, you're the blonde lady that has "problems with your mom" and dating. Well... best to you.

[SeaStorm1]

kinda but dirty blonde and baby face lady more likely and yep my mum also shit to.

[BoopBoopBeep]

yeah dirty blonde... that's right. Hate that you're stuck under your mom. Seems that complicates a lot for you... not being alone and whatnot.

[SeaStorm1]

she only doing to me and yep judge all men that i did message on in past and still judge them. take a long time to apologies and yep she only made rules for me when comes to dating men with learning disabities. that i don't want but can't she refuse when i do express my feeling. ignored me when i want something. when i ignored her she want something from me . kept argue each time when dating and relationship. none of my two sisters hasn't got any rules with dating

[BoopBoopBeep]

Well, I mean you don't seem to be so disabled that you can't function in society. Can you find a job you CAN do and maybe save up and move out, show her that you can live on your own? Then her rules don't apply.

[SeaStorm1]

can't move out since is too expensive can't drive. can't even live on my own at all. has have adult with me if even did move out and i can't do my own thing when comes going to city. these doesn't work for me and have tried. she won't even listend to me at all.

[BoopBoopBeep]

dang that's rough.

[SeaStorm1]

dad does nothing but agree with his wife. my two sister do not any rules when comes to dating and relationships. i can't even get job but can get fake job. get paid by town council.

[eagle1951]

they may be bad , but you may be to picky as well

you are looking for the bad in guys and not seeing the good

[SeaStorm1]

When did I say I was looking for bad men in my question details. I don't even want to see bad men can fuck off.