So to make a long story short, I have decided to stop initiating contact with my ex boyfriend after realizing he wasn't making any effort to remain friends (he wanted to stay friends). It's been 8 days, the longest since we broke up. We never fought and things were subtle, no drama. My question is guys (or girls), if you were used to having your ex text you, then notice she is no longer contacting you, would you wonder what is up? And would you eventually contact them out of curiosity just to say Hi? Keep in mind he never told me to move on or to stop contacting him. He was always very cool with me.