Do you think a second chance exist? And did you ever get a second chance? ( friendship / relationship, doesn't matter.) And what would be your reason to give a second chance?
It all depends on the other person and the context - but you need to live your life as if second chances DON'T exist, because very often, they won't. If you behave in a way that assumes that you will get a second chance, you will end up losing people who are important to you, and chances are that you will be hurt and depressed as a result.
Of course, your partner must also have similar respect for you, and behave accordingly. And THAT means you need to choose your partners carefully, and based on much more than just being attracted to them - you also need COMPATIBILITY with them and for them to be emotionally mature and stable.
At 15, that's probably asking too much, and isn't realistic, so you need to accept that you aren't likely to be with your partner forever at this age, so don't be naive about that and don't do anything that would tie you to them at such a young age - such as getting pregnant or married. Keep your expectations realistic and have some fun - but also be responsible.
1 second chance given the circumstances, but my man your so young. At 15 I wasn't even aware of girls, excited to party, get a license, friends, causing trouble. If I go back with the 15 year old mind set I would have the world in my hands.
I used to give second chances until I finally understand the saying: "Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me" As much as we wanna believe something is worth another chance, you need to learn mistakes once. made are repeated. Give a chance for people amaze you but if they give it for granted, they are not worth it. Whats broken is never the same and we shouldn't walk backwards in life. I dont give second chances. Especially because this chance might be better used by someone much better.
Here is my situation. Should I give him a chance? He broke up with me bc he’s away at school and said he just needed some space cuz he was dealing with stress. After two weeks he texted me saying he does want to be friends and he’s been communicating recently. I was in a lot of pain when we broke up and now I just keep hoping we’ll get back together. He’s gonna be home in a month and I want to see him because I miss him. Does he deserve a second chance?
I've always been one to give someone more chances than they deserve, but it's because I believe in fighting for what I love and trying to fix any problem that occurs. But I've learned my lesson with that, I'm not that girl anymore. If you cheat on me or put your hands on me, I'm done. Anything else, I'll probably try and work through it.
Yeah I believe in second chances. But the chance depends on the situation too. I once had a boyfriend who we broke up too soon. He didn't know he was my first love. Years go by he wanted me again but he already had kids and I knew I had a second chance but I didn't want him no more cause I was so focus on school. We were still in high school. So my reason depends on the situation.
Depends on circumstances. If you have an amicable separation, because it's just not the right time for one or other of you, then yes it's possible. But there are some things that can't be forgotten (lies/dishonesty). Without trust there is no way back.
I did second chance ones. dump him right after he cheated & lie to me. Not the first time I got cheated. girls their were immature. Didn't care about my feeling. only care about my ex boyfriend feeling.
You can give second chances but it'll never be the same as it was the first time around. I remember leaving a friend behind a couple of years ago, he messaged me wanting us to be friends again and so I tried it but it was weird and different. We've separated so much it feels like we're just starting a friendship and the 2 years we spent as friends/brothers mean nothing. So you can give that second chance but it'll be a coin flip if the second time is better or worse.
i think it really depends on what happened/why your relationship ended. i think if someone really fucked you over then it’s probably not the best idea to go back to them
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They exist but are usually pointless. There's a reason the "relationship, friendship, doesn't matter" failed. "Fool me once shame on you, fool me 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7 times, shame on ME"
Yes since forgiveness is the greatest thing you can ever do to a person for me even if a person shot me of forgive them I'd hate em but I will forgive they
Of course they exist. No one is born absolutely perfect. Are you, yourself, without a single fault? We all make mistakes, but we can grow from them and learn live, learn, & love each other better as a result
It stains the sanctity of relationship although you may never talk about it. No one is ever comfortable imagining their partner being naked with someone else, or sometimes also being emotionally involved with someone outside of their relationship.
Depends on what. Most of the time, you get one chance. If you fuck it up, you get one chance to change. If you fuck up again that’s your fault and your done. Depending on what you messed up of course.
Depends what they did murder no child Molesters, rape, Cheating never been cheated on but I witnessed it what it does when my dad cheated on my mom countless of time but caught him once.
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Yes they exist. I've been given many chances, by many different people, for many different reasons.
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