Are you glad your EX dumped you?

[Anonymous]

Were you hurt and depressed when your ex that you truly loved just did not want you anymore, and just dumped you!

Will time has passed months even years...Are you glad that they did?

[Anonymous]

I certainly didn’t think I was when it happened. But after a very short period of time I felt really good. (Later the same day) Not feeling bad actually bothered me more than the breakup. I began to really question the feelings I believed I had for her. During the relationship, I think I convinced myself I had feelings for her I didn’t. But looking back a very short time after the breakup it began to occur to me that the relationship wasn’t that great.

She was controlling and not very sensitive to my needs. But I looked past these things because we were in a relationship and I was really thrilled to be in a relationship again. I’m happy she broke up with me. But I’m unsettled having discovered my own psychological blind spots.

Despite the things I tolerated she’s a good person and I wish her the best. I’d never consider dating her again but I’ve come to appreciate what she taught me about myself. I’m relieved she’s gone and hope to be true to myself in future relationship (s).

Peace

[flashover]

Yes! I was completely in love with my ex, and no matter how bad she treated me I stayed around hoping things would change. I kept waiting for the sweet girl I met to come back, and I probably would have never left. It broke my heart when she left me, but now that I am starting to heal I realized how bad it truly was, and know not to ever let that happen again

[landingsight]

Yes, I'm glad he did. It took him ending the relationship for me to realize that we weren't as compatible as I thought we were, and not having him around really forced me to go out and make more friends and be more active. I feel like I came out of that whole ordeal a better person.

He did end up wanting me back (in his own words, he'd felt like he made a mistake), but as I already said, I'd discovered that we weren't compatible. I turned him down, because I was actually relieved by the prospect of not having to argue anymore about the things we staunchly didn't agree on.

[landingsight]

Actually, I am. I loved him, but things weren't the same anymore - he knew that, and I knew that, but I wasn't brave enough to step up and do anything about it. I would have been mostly content to just let things go. He broke it off, though, and I'm grateful to him for doing that, because it allowed me to realize how trapped I'd felt in the relationship, and to look forward in my life to new people and new things.

[Anonymous]

Yes! I am glad he did, because I know if I tried ending it he would find a way to come back into my life.Although at the moment I was really in love with him..he let me go and someone better found me. Someone I can actually trust and that truly respects me.

[Madhattersgf2010]

Im glad this one ex broke up with me all he wanted was a freaking booty call and he dumped me because I wouldn't put out not to mention he never asked me back so I knew I was nothing but a booty call when I noticed he was with a girl not even a week after he dumped me. I look at him now and I'm like wtf did I date him he ain't that good looking so yea its awesome knowing that they don't really phase you anymore

[ilyurbella]

I'm glad my ex dumped me because now it brought my boyfriend and me together. And yes, they did want me back and still do after 3 years, but I really don't care.

[1jzsupra]

Yes! my ex dumped me 2 months ago and is now sleeping with men like nothing. She is also getting drunk and partying. Not the girl I knew. She is not what I thought she was so yes I am glad she did.

[Anonymous]

I'm glad :) Well I was dating my ex I was really deserting my friends and unaware of all the problems they had been having- I wasn#t being a very good mate at all. But now I'm single again I can go back to being an awesome mate :)

[Anonymous]

It's been a few years, I miss who she was before she changed. At this moment right now, I wish I'd never met her, because I miss who/what she was when we started being together.

[Anonymous]

i am because he wasn't the one for me and I was too blinded to see it so yes, he did me a favor

[Anonymous]

I may be able to answer you within a year or so! For now I'm hurting allot, he got a girl pregnant

[Anonymous]

I'm glad I dumped my ex(es). One in particular wanted me back for two years, and maybe still does.

[prettyaddis]

Yes, I'm glad he ended our friendship. I wanted to, but I also wanted to be polite with him since he was always nice to me. So I put off telling him. Finally he was the one to say it was over.

[Anonymous]

No. But I'm sure it's for the better because he was an immature a**hole.