i'll go first, yes we spent quality time together but there times when he made me feel like i had to stuff and when i said no he sleays adked y. Also he was older so there were times when i asked stuff he'd make me fell stupid for some reason. Example: he went on a buisness trio he called me i was worried i was keeping him up and lessen tye time he'd get to sleep i find out we were in the same time zone, this guy ask y would u think i'd be 2 hours ahead and i said different state maybe different time zone and this guy says thats stupid. Well sorry my deduction skills suck. Then there was thid other time i was talking about a classmate who finally got to do art instead of medicine like she wanted too this guy needs to find someone to for in the equation , he worked hard for where he is today too like wtf. I can't even day Rome Flynn is hot around this guy but he downright oogles his freaking celebrity crushes from old hollywood. I cut my hair this year ehen we were still together i did not even get a compliment this bitch 'i prefer long hair' so i responded 'good for u but it my hair' then he has the nerve to say 'i didn't say anything just sharing my preference'. Thank God i got rid of him when i did i would have been in jail or a pschiatric hospital. Walking red flag, sorry for the next girl i heard he was dating someone a month ago.
So when started dating, she said she had one dog. Come to find out she has 12 animals, 4 dogs, 5 cats, 2 rabbits and a snake. But she claims all the other pets belong to her children and only the 1 dog is hers. So she claims she did not lie, even though she did not tell me about all the other animals until I asked later about them.
Then she said she only was $10,000 in debt. Then later I found out she owns over $10,000 on credit cards, $15, 000 in back taxes, $9,000 on her car and she is upside down in her house, and there is unknown amount of unpaid medical bills. So she is honestly more then $40,000 to $50,000 in debt. Be she claims to no have lied because when told me $10,000 she was just talking about the credit cards, enough though she never mentioned all the the other debt.
So the pet thing honest is an issue to me, but I go over it. But the money this a bigger issue... because it is supposed to be a long term committed relationship and these things are just trickling out one at a time and I feel like its a violation of trust.
So yes, I am going to break up with her, but I told her we can just go back to regular dating... because in a committed relationships we are supposed to building for a future together and she is not being 100% honest with we me... so we still go on dates but I am looking for a different women and have a date lined up for this week end. So I only half broke up with her, she knows we are not in a committed relationship but think she still hopes that we will be.
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Because i fell in love with her and she isn't my wife.
He dumped me, actually
And it wasn't the first time, it was the fourth time. I'm glad he did because now he's out of my life for good and I don't have to deal with his abusive shit and him constantly stalking me in school anymore.
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