Is it okay to have sex with your unconscious partner?

Anonymous
Last night I woke up to my boyfriend going at it with me, which sounds kind of ridiculous but I’m an incredibly deep sleeper. I told him to stop a few times, but he acted like he couldn’t hear me and kept going, so I just let him finish.

I asked him why he did it this morning, and he apologized and said he was drunk and didn’t know what he was doing, but that couples in a sexual relationship do that all the time.

I’m sorry if this is a stupid question, but this is my first relationship and I feel kinda weird about the whole situation.
Updates:
9 mo
Probably another silly question, but how would one even go about reporting something like this to the police?

I doubt I actually will, but if I did, I just don’t know how I would go about proving it.
Is it okay to have sex with your unconscious partner?
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