Sleeping with the opposite sex?

[Anonymous]

me and my guy best friend spent the night together and we were falling asleep in his bed and i asked if i could just sleep with him and he said yes. what does that mean? he’s been flirty with me in the past, but we were also both scared to make a move since we are so close.

[MysticDevice]

I did that once with my girl best friend. It wasn't so innocent lol. We both agreed not to get together and we're still best friends and its not even weird. However, sleeping with your opposite gender best friend is a step towards being "more than friends"

[Tyrael]

I mean if you want more then you should let him know that and see what happens.

If not, you're just friends that shared a bed. I've done that plenty of times with a girl in friends with, it doesn't mean anything to us.

[Tyrael]

I'm friends with*

[spartan55]

"guy best friend"... do you say that with a straight face? Friends don't spend the night together...

[Asker]

should i tell him i like him? i’m worried he won’t feel the same way and that he thought of sharing a bed together as just a “friends” thing

[spartan55]

Come on, no one is that stupid.

[scott04sa22]

Sounds like this is heading to friends with benefits Territory

[Asker]

how so?

[scott04sa22]

From The way it sounds from what you posted

[Joshua0213]

Well you asked him and he said yes, probably thought you were scared or something if he didn't do anything

[Jamie05rhs]

Nothing wrong with that.

[Anonymous]

do you want something to happen next time?

[Danny_dan92]

Damn you’re dumb

[Asker]

haha how am i dumb?

[Danny_dan92]

Cause wtf do you think he’s getting at? Are you really that naive?

[Asker]

he’s been my best friend for years so i didn’t think anything of it

[Danny_dan92]

Yeah but. You also literally noticed that he has been flirty...

[Asker]

yes in the past but he could just be being nice