Is sleeping with your friend of the opposite gender normal?

[Anonymous]

And when I say sleeping with I mean like spooning. Like full ass on my d***k cuddling. Have you or would you ever sleep with a *friend* like that?

I slept with my friend this past weekend but she wanted to cuddle with me which I thought was pretty weird and we full on spooned the whole night. Isn't that breaking the boundary on the friend zone?

[jrose]

I did that once- but with a guy friend I was totally into and I'm fairly sure at the time he was into me. We never quite became a couple, we're still friends though.

With a guy friend I had no interest in- I would definitely not spoon. Share a bed, sure, no harm in sharing a double bed if we both need a place to sleep. I don't know if spooning is completely crossing the friendship line, but it's sort of coming too close to it for my comfort- leaves you with lingering questions. Just sleeping in the same bed (or general area) isn't the same though- I've done it on occassion. They had their side, I had mine, and except for an elbow or a knee (lol) we pretty much kept to ourselves and I don't see it as crossing a line.

[heywat]

I've done it recently with my ex's friend ( now you haveto know the situation) we didn't spoon but I laid with my head on his bare chest. I just kind of listened to his heart all night. He just rubbed my back till I fell asleep. Is there anything wrong with it? I don't think so, not til you start thinking dirty thoughts...so for most guys yes. If she's like a sister than I think it's fine, if you like her; watch out!

[cendrillion]

It really depends on the person I guess lol

In my case I think it crosses the line, I won't even cuddle like that with any of my gay friends or friends that are girls lol.

Either she trusts you a lot and feels safe around you, or she wants to be more than friends :) good luck

[MikeK]

A friend of mine was always into this. She never wanted sex, but she always wanted to cuddle in bed and we always slept together completely nude - my **** was right between her ass cheeks so naturally I always wanted to f***, but she didn't... I don't get it either - it is kind of weird.

[heywat]

It was only weird because you wanted to fxxk her! Lol

[MikeK]

:P

Seriously - who gets into bed ass naked with each other and doesn't want to bang?

If that's not a tease I don't know what is

[Anonymous]

Maybe in some cases, But more than likely If I let my friend do that I was starting to develop feelings for him.

[cu-tea]

Sometimes its just cuddling.

[jennhottie17]

i don't think I could do it.

[RebeccaSJ]

Many of us do it.