Would you take back your ex who blindsided you?

[Anonymous]

Just dumped you and you didn't know why. Would you take them back?

[danceallday]

Maybe, if I had been given enough time to heal and get myself together. And, if he had explained what had happened and apologized for it.

I think it also depends on how long the relationship was and how emotionally involved we both had been. For example, if I put in all the effort while he did nothing, I would probably not get back together with him. Yet, if most of the relationship had been enjoyable and I felt safe, then I would definitely consider it.

[Anonymous]

Nobody will blindside and dump you for no reason, it either means the dumper was cheating or got bored of you. Why would I want to take back someone like that? Because now they feel lonely? F**k that!

That's just one of the many coward ways to dump someone.

I rather know the truth no matter how painful it is.

[Kamilah]

mmmm it all depends on where I'm at in life & how everything is going in general & of course he better have a logical explanation as to why he acted the way he did towards me lol. There are too many factors that'd influence my answer so I'll say sure maybe, never say sever right lol?!

[Iamnobody]

before I would've said yes. now I'm not so sure. my ex sort of blindsided and dumped me. a weak-ass flaky attempt at that too. she never had the guts to do it like a decent human being would. I later found out the reason why from a friend. but I loved her anyway. it would take a serious head vs heart battle to make a decision on this one tbh

[Asker]

What was the reason?

[Iamnobody]

she said I wasn't trying hard enough. the girl was a wannabe princess. pampered too much in life to the point where when I didn't treat her that way she'd had enough. yet she didn't have the guts to say it to my face. even when breaking up with me she typed the message out on her phone and passed the phone to me. while I was sitting right next to her

[Hjominbonrun]

yes, but then I'd be rather demanding, between the sheets.

[brianne3]

yes and no. yes if we dated for a good minute and went through a lot together and if I actually really liked them still. it may be a stupid move, but you never know till you try!

and no if they were just awful to the bone.

[viva_glow]

If they blindsided you?

That kind of sounds like being a sucker for punishment.

At that point, it's a matter of dignity. I wouldn't do it. Unless this ex made themselves VERY deserving of being taken back. That's just how I feel about it.

[Elizabeth_20]

No.

If he dumped you once (and didn't even tell you why) who can assure you that he's not going to dump you again when he or she gets bored?

It sound hard I know, but it's just the way I see it.

[Anonymous]

I don't think I could ever take back someone that dumped me.

[Shadoww]

hell no