Would you take someone back who left you for their ex?

[Anonymous]

My husband ex trying to return after going back and forth between her baby father and my husband. During the time they were together she treated him horribly. She kept bouncing back between her and her baby father. I found messages where she wants him back now. What to do?

[Anonymous]

We’ll just hope that he had a shitty life w her. She’s only coming back because the other man probably left her. Whether that’s because he’s a scumbag or because she’s a complete bitch to him like he was w your husband I don’t know. But just hope that he realizes that. Does he know that you know about her messages? But on the other hand she may have change I don’t know. It is possible that she has realized what a shitty person she was. If she left him chances are he still has feelings for her. These are things you’d have to talk to him about. I’d only go back to an ex if I was single, and if she was hit just to plow her a few times then leave her lol honest truth. But talk to him.

[BJP21]

I don't enjoy sloppy seconds sorry. PASS.

Some truth to this meme. "I don't have exes, I have examples of what not to do."

[BlueScorpio]

Tell your husband to cut ties with that woman and to stop speaking with her. If he loves and respect your marriage and you as his wife, he will. She keeps coming back because she sees your husband and placeholder/security blanket when things don't go well with the baby daddy. An ex is an ex for a reason and now that he's married, he needs to make sure she stays in the past.

[Asker]

Thank you! I will post an update on the situation soon

[IveGotNoName]

I usually make pretty bad choices when it comes to my own mental health but in this case even I would know not to go back to them.

[Pinay_ako]

that’s up to your husband

[ManOnFire]

Absolutely not. If it's one thing that really irritates me it's a woman who is still hooked on her ex even if she's out there dating again. In her mind she's not really over this person, and has the very strong potential to end up dumping you for her ex. But the women who are even worse are the ones who are still hooked on an ex who is actually toxic, or was abusive and narcissistic. And they will leave the right guy just to go back to something dark and awful.

[AviatorTom]

Sure, why not? If she's coming back to me, she has realized (as I knew she would) that I am much better than her ex. 😎

I wouldn't pursue her ... No! Only if she comes back to me on her own, and I wouldn't mind if she begged a little for me to take her back. 😉

[Anonymous]

No. I got played for a complete chump/sucker with this many years ago. I will never disrespect myself like that again. Never.

“Fool me once shame on you. Fool me twice shame on me”.

Have some self respect for yourself and tell this guy to pound sand.

[Anonymous]

She needs to sort her life first and then decide for herself, but I am definitely out of it, for my case.

You need to sort this out with your husband. Try to find some legal help or anything. All I can say is you need to be calm in such cases.

I would not suggest getting friends and family involved as a small thing can turn into a big thing. But depends on you. Be firm.👍

[Qdbrown]

Wait and watch. If he goes back, ditch him. Maybe talk in a bit how he needs to block her and delete contact and social media stuff. Block as well. She needs to be gone.

[worldscolide]

I would never ever give an ex a second chance. Period. How is he responding?

[Asker]

He ain’t at all so she decided to go through his aunt

[worldscolide]

if he is not responding you absolutely should not be worried.

[DenizLikesTennis]

Terrible manners. Tell her that there is plenty of fish in the sea, so not the only one

[dustybiker]

If they chose to leave. They are already gone.

[courtney06]

Absolutely not. I hate love triangles and want nothing to do with them.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I would not take him back but do what you want too

[msc545]

Remind your husband how terrible she was to him and hope for the best. That is really all you can do.

[Chaser3232]

He needs to quit playing with fire, just hose it down. Do a Smoky the Bear on her!

[VanguardTitan]

I definitely wouldn't. It's direspecting myself if i do that.

[WhitneySnow]

Tell him to block her

[misfittoy]

no day, no way

[annabananna]

Do they have kids together?

[Asker]

No they don’t

[Asker]

She have 4 kids but she was married previously to her last baby daddy. The one she constantly go back and forth with

[annabananna]

I don’t see any reason for him to need to communicate back

[TroyDT]

No. I don't double dip, period.

[AndrésC64]

Absolutely not. You snooze you lose.

[ZenJen444]

You need to leave him

[MementoMori_]

Love stinks.

[whirled_up_girl]

Nope

[Igooo]

There is no such think as a ex.

[slatyb]

No. Eww.

[Fuentes]

Lol no

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Nope..

[ShininN]

absolutely not