It depends on what the reason for it was, but honestly, I find people who ghost to be generally flaky, irresponsible, and unreliable, and those are qualities I try to avoid in a person. There's no reason unless a freak emergency happened that they couldn't give me an explanation as to why they couldn't make it. I appreciate brutal honesty more than having someone just flake out with no explanation.
What I really hate is when you make plans with someone and wait around on them, only for them to never show up, and they never give any explanation for why. I wouldn't be mad if something came up or even if they forgot, but I find it very rude to not even acknowledge me and let me know. I won't make plans with a person like that again because I have better things to do than wait around on people.
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Depends on the reason. If you had a fight and they ghosted you yes it's immature but you can possibly move past it. But in general I find it hard, I wouldn't even try to reconnect with someone who ghosted me I only did once because we'd been best friends for years but it was to no avail.
I've ghosted people too but only people I hardly know, would NEVER ghost a friend, and in those cases it was for a reason and I wouldn't want them to keep bothering me, i'd probably block them then. In other cases i've accidently ghosted someone by forgetting to reply... But if they never reminded me we weren't close anyway or else i'd eventually have remembered too.
Ghosting isn't a real thing.
Its something children made up because they can't handle not having constant attention.
Older generations of people just understand that we aren't the centre of the world and that people are busy and forgetful.
I'm used to getting ignored, it's frustrating and inconsiderate but I've come to accept that it's just what people do now. Or at least how they treat me, so maybe it's my fault.
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It can go a few ways. It's all about how you feel I guess.
-idk why guys still talk to me after I ghost them even for almost a year and how desperately they try to get me back in their lives, they let me back so easily. It's crazy in my mind.
-ive never had it the other way around except for one person I barely liked as a friend, he just wasn't someone I would even want to hang around ever. When he disappeared for awhile I thought he might have gotten hurt. Then he text for a couple days and I was relieved he wasn't hurt and also text him back, didn't care if he had ghosted. There were no other feelings toward him though.I feel kind of "disgusted" and sorry for people who ghost others. In a way, it tells me about their poor social-emotional skills. Yet at the same time, I think is so inexcusable to not give reasons, words or face to a person and suddenly act as if you weren't in their lives.
Forgiveness is hard in general, but you have to forgive. Only when you forgive can you truly move on. And no, it doesn't mean you're giving another chance to hurt you. On the contrary, you are allowing yourself to walk away.
If they are ghosting you, they are not worth your time, they don't respect it.
Forgive them, for they are broken, and move onto better thingsI wouldn't give anyone who ghosted me another chance, unless they had a really good reason.
Dating isn't a game, you either want to be with someone or you don't and of hou don't, tell them so you can both part ways knowing.
I've never understood the whole ghosting thing, unless the other person was crazy or unhinged.
Maybe they hurt you really bad? I don't know.
Seems like a really childish thing to do.I did it one time cause i couldnt be honest at the time.
But after almost a month i had to tell my friend why and im glad i did cause we are still friends and the girl i ghosted her over is gone.
But because i was honest all three of us hung out and had good times too.For me, it is. Ghosting shows a lack of respect for other people's feelings and the immaturity to not be able to be honest and upfront. Being ghosted hurts, and I wouldn't trust someone to not do it again if given a second chance.
He did not reply to me for a week even if he's online everyday... so I blocked him. I can't forgive him for ignoring me for a week. There's no going back.
I honestly feel they deserve to have it happen to them and hope it will.
Would I go back to the one person I would want a long honest explanation, and then if I excepted it I would forgive him but never romantically be interested in him again.no because I'm starting to learn when people show you who they are believe them the first time not the second third or fifth time. it's really hard to do trust me but you have to do it for your dignity and your self-respect
Unforgivable plain and simple ghosting is the opposite of being decent. When your open & honest about your feelings and you get no honesty back it's a new low.
I think ghosting is pathetic and childish, the people who do it are too much of a coward to tell you what they really feel which makes them unfit for a relationship.
It's not really ghosting if they come back into your life...
If the ghost is that cute, it’s forgivable. Lol 😂 Anything can be forgiven. People get busy with life... that’s life.
It's very frustrating. I forgave him the first time because he was in a weird place emotionally but he might be doing it again. Sucks when someone says they care about you so much then just go cold.
I believe ghosting tells a lot about the person's personality and morality. Not someone I would like to allow back into my life. Simply a bad character.
For me is unforgivable. The person has the right to know why the other perso ghosted you I mean it is just out of politeness
I wouldn’t forgive ghosting. Just shows that the person didn’t even had enough respect to give an explanation.
Not much info to go off... are we dating? Getting to know each other? Friends?
Casper! If you can’t forgive someone for “ghosting” you, then what makes you think you can move on.
of course it is. they don't care about you, why should you ever care back
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