Is this a valid reason to ghost someone?

[Anonymous]

I want to ghost this guy I’ve been seeing for months. I don’t know what happened but he goes several days without talking to me. He will text me every one in a while but never consistently anymore like he used to. The days we do talk are days he will mention sex middle conversation. He only responds to text with me telling him I want to end things and when I ask “do you want to break up”. His same responses are “lol what are you talking about?” I’m tired of it and won’t to ghost and block him without having to explain anything. I already blocked him before for a few days and he got mad at it which made me feel bad. I want to feel block him but I’m going to feel bad again.

[Espresso-Grande]

Before blocking him or ghosting him make sure that's what you really want. Don't do it in the heat of the moment when you feel frustrated or mad at him, or you'll end up regretting.

It is frustrating when someone isn't consistent in texting. It can make you feel confused and fill of doubt about how they feel about you. I'm sure most of us can relate to that feeling.

Have you not asked him why?

[Ms_Facesitter]

Don't ghost. Instead of 'do you want to break up', say 'I'm breaking up with you Buh-BYE!' and then you cut all ties.

[genericname85]

i think it's ok, íf you clearly expressed your desire to cut the ties and not to continue a communicative relationship but they don't stop contacting you.

[boggboss]

Sure but know if u ever was to get ghosted u can't really complain

[sassyredhead]

state your true feelings it feels good to get things off your chest.

[Tahirmd]

You say he doesn't text like he used to.
Is he busy now than before?
Or does he have a good reason to not text uIf he does not. then you have to dump him.

[Tahirmd]

*If not ulf.

[Tahirmd]

You seem like a good person.
I was in a similar relationship where i was the one making efforts.
Ask yourself do u deserve better?
If yes.. then move on girl..

One more thing.. do u think is he out of your league maybe.. if yes.. then u should just end it

[Jltakk]

Be open and honest. Ghosting doesn't exactly make you any better than him.

[EyeKnowMeNahYou]

Nah be forward and then block em

[In_Trance]

yea, move on