What are reasons you decide to ghost someone?

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ShadowFan12 · Accepted Answer

I'm guilty of ghosting and have been ghosted myself, in both cases multiple times. Honestly my reasons for ghosting are:

Bad vibes, meaning something just doesn't feel or seem right about them, red flags are popping up like crazy, basically a signal to get out of Dodge, as fast and as far as you can.

They're crazy, to say the least and not in a good way either, going along with the bad vibes thing. Need I say more?

They've got some serious issues... confidence issues, self esteem issues, dare I say it, Daddy issues? They're also very clingy, possessive and controlling and only seem to care about fulfilling their own needs and could give a shit less about yours... my ex was like this, would not leave me alone, would always blow my phone up even when I was at work, and it got to the point it was straight up annoying and again, more red flags began to pop up...

They were just a hookup to begin with... whether or not either side was honest with each other to begin with, it was only meant to be a "wham, bam, thank you ma'am" and nothing more, not meant to become a real serious thing.

rayjinazn · Accepted Answer

They can't handle the truth. And I dont lie, God knows I suck at it even if my life depended on it. Some things are better left unsaid. Maybe to you its just a minor irritation. But to them, the world goes to shit and they'll jump up and down like a 2 year old who's ice cream dropped

jennifer_bloom · Accepted Answer

I ghosted a guy i went on 2 dates with cause my friend said he was just using me for my virginity and i tried to ghost another guy for taking and never giving but he wouldn't let me ghost him - he kept bugging me and bugging me every day and wouldn't stop unless I replied.

DiamondHu · Accepted Answer

I would do this in a realationship if I felt like I wanted to break-up, but felt guilty. This would most likely happen if I fallen out of love with someone, but my partner is still deep in love. Mean but, its hard to break someone's heart face to face.

Sawyerblu · Answer

You can tell if you like them or not after not a lot of time. In my case, it’s usually not. However, I hate confrontation so if I were talking to guys I didn’t like, I would try to slowly stop replying until they get the message. In some cases I’ve been confronted about ghosting them and it’s super awkward for me to explain that I just don’t like them

Anonymous · Answer

I’ve never ghosted anyone because I only how it feels to be rejected countless times and my guilt wins over. I usually just continue and the other person is the one to end the conversation or I say “I’m not looking for a relationship or looking to get anyone’s feelings hurt”

Sleeptalk · Answer

They're extremely boring, they never listen to what I say, they never improve the relationship after multiple conversations, they violate my privacy, they send unsolved pics over and over... the list goes on

Anonymous · Answer

A girl literally agreed to go to the movies with me. I was willing to pay for everything. She always says hi to me when she sees me. We smile a lot at eachother. And she doesn’t respond the day we were supposed to go. Honestly early 20s is the worst time to get into a relationship. Guys are brain dead. Women can’t commit. Just... no

cavmanier · Answer

Ghosting to me only makes sense if you don't know the person. I find it odd to do that to someone you've been seeing.

SexyAshh · Answer

I've recenetly ghosted my ex after he wanted to try again. There comes a time after countlessly stating a reason and not being heard, that you realize your worth and move on with your life.

Scarecrow13 · Answer

I would never do that. The only time I haven't responded is either when there is a logical conclusion to the conversation, or I am unable to at the moment and just forget later. Of the latter, I generally try to get back later.

diphylleiagrayi · Answer

bcs they're annoying, rude, just seek for what he needs (for example: sex) with never consider my mood, no heart, no feelings, no respect and freak me out enough.  i just want them to be lost.

justawhiteman · Answer

id tell someone why im not a fan of them and let them off... id never ghost thats dirty in my opinion

Anonymous · Answer

Personally I dont think that ghosting is a real thing.

I think its retarded bullshit made up by children who are too fucking dumb to make contact with people they want to be in contact with because it would mean sending 2 consecutive messages.

Anonymous · Answer

I didn't like the way that I was being treated. I would constantly get disrespected by my ex. He would call me names like ugly, try to exploit me, so that he could laugh, tried to harm me and even threatened me.

arabgoddess · Answer

If they talk really dirty or if someone is trying to control/dominate me.. that's the only time I do it!

GuildLegend435 · Answer

if i haven't known them for very long, and they start acting like they are out of their mind. rarely happens, though.

daisy56 · Answer

When they’re awful at conversation and we don’t have a connection

AntiNocturnal · Answer

1. I don't like that person 2. I don't care to talk to them 3. They irritate me 4. I'm not looking/don't see anything progressing I don't often ghost, though

CaliforniaSun22 · Answer

They are a creep , and are super pushy - and they are aggressive

R_Cakes91 · Answer

Usually when a guy is too rude or is cray cray. Had a few of those in my day.

Daisy007 · Answer

If they're boring aand i'm not interested. I'll get bored & just cut em off

Somethingwittty · Answer

Being nuckin futs. Sex is usually good but fuck no never again

TahoeHiker · Answer

" Whats the hype. They're big bulky and that screeching sound as you're getting online is so irritating. I dont see it catching on in all aspects of life"

cirno · Answer

If they do something that makes me really uncomfortable and scared

perhapspeace · Answer

Their energy was unappealing honestly. Would I ghost them again? Absou-fuckin-lutely.

Shark_61695 · Answer

Laziness... I'm just crap. If I get a message and don't reply straight away, it's likely I'd forget about it.

Creepazoid · Answer

They have bad breath or body odor and you don't want to be the person who says I'm not into you because you're bad hygiene

Adamant4fun · Answer

Cos they are too immature to face the music. Pathetic really. They were never worth it if they are that spineless.

OddBeMe · Answer

If the relationship is no longer viable, and connected relationships won’t be affected. Time is the most important resource we have. Don’t waste it on assholes.

broncobryan · Answer

If I'm not. interested in what they have to say, or I feel like they aren't worth my time. So yeah I'll ghost a mf real quick.

Glass_Heart · Answer

I would ghost because he's super annoying but really sweet and I don't want to hurt his feelings directly.

OlafBC · Answer

She cheated on me, instant cut off for me... Still hurts that someone would cheat

jasco · Answer

Not interested anymore or bored or I just dont like u anymore

scooogy · Answer

If they seem incapable of leaving me in peace when I need it.

Jackpot777Returns · Answer

Because I cannot take anymore of them it is a last resort for me usually.

Anonymous · Answer

Not interested, not knowing how to continue the conversation, feeling like she's not interested, feeling that we won't get along

Griffin_mxx · Answer

If they’re annoying, ugly, rude, don’t bring anything important into my life.

Justababy · Answer

Maybe they have some one or they didn’t like something you said or did or they found something else

Golden_shine · Answer

His number of sluts making me go nuts about him...😍😘🥰😗😙😚😚😚😚🤗

Anonymous · Answer

if they are a jerk, lie a lot, hide facts about themselves, manipulative behaviors, ...

luxnstuff · Answer

When they’re desperate or unmotivated

abby712 · Answer

There annoying. Or uninteresting

BeHappy1985 · Answer

I really wish you didn't ask this as an anon so I could block you.

UnknownGagsUser · Answer

Don't want to talk anymore

datgirl · Answer

Yes i do. I strongly prefer to date an Indian man.

Lunatic1 · Answer

Obsessive clinginess or overly controlling

Exorcist_Rampage · Answer

I don't like visiting ghost houses.

TavionRiley · Answer

If they are completely toxic

Agem123 · Answer

Super boring, needy behavior

kymb3r · Answer

None. Ever. Ghosting is extremely self centered.

Anonymous · Answer

Because you're a heartless person.

MyyDecember · Answer

they end up boring me

knewbie · Answer

Trust or personal issues

different83 · Answer

Negative energy

infinitybreaker2018 · Answer

Cause they are crazy

Anonymous · Answer

Friendzoned.

Browneye57 · Answer

When she's BSC.

Dsg1193 · Answer

Lack of interest

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