What are reasons you decide to ghost someone?

[Anonymous]

[ShadowFan12]

I'm guilty of ghosting and have been ghosted myself, in both cases multiple times. Honestly my reasons for ghosting are:

Bad vibes, meaning something just doesn't feel or seem right about them, red flags are popping up like crazy, basically a signal to get out of Dodge, as fast and as far as you can.

They're crazy, to say the least and not in a good way either, going along with the bad vibes thing. Need I say more?

They've got some serious issues... confidence issues, self esteem issues, dare I say it, Daddy issues? They're also very clingy, possessive and controlling and only seem to care about fulfilling their own needs and could give a shit less about yours... my ex was like this, would not leave me alone, would always blow my phone up even when I was at work, and it got to the point it was straight up annoying and again, more red flags began to pop up...

They were just a hookup to begin with... whether or not either side was honest with each other to begin with, it was only meant to be a "wham, bam, thank you ma'am" and nothing more, not meant to become a real serious thing.

[rayjinazn]

They can't handle the truth. And I dont lie, God knows I suck at it even if my life depended on it. Some things are better left unsaid. Maybe to you its just a minor irritation. But to them, the world goes to shit and they'll jump up and down like a 2 year old who's ice cream dropped

[jennifer_bloom]

I ghosted a guy i went on 2 dates with cause my friend said he was just using me for my virginity and i tried to ghost another guy for taking and never giving but he wouldn't let me ghost him - he kept bugging me and bugging me every day and wouldn't stop unless I replied.

[DiamondHu]

I would do this in a realationship if I felt like I wanted to break-up, but felt guilty. This would most likely happen if I fallen out of love with someone, but my partner is still deep in love. Mean but, its hard to break someone's heart face to face.

[Sawyerblu]

You can tell if you like them or not after not a lot of time. In my case, it’s usually not. However, I hate confrontation so if I were talking to guys I didn’t like, I would try to slowly stop replying until they get the message. In some cases I’ve been confronted about ghosting them and it’s super awkward for me to explain that I just don’t like them

[Anonymous]

I’ve never ghosted anyone because I only how it feels to be rejected countless times and my guilt wins over. I usually just continue and the other person is the one to end the conversation or I say “I’m not looking for a relationship or looking to get anyone’s feelings hurt”

[Sleeptalk]

They're extremely boring, they never listen to what I say, they never improve the relationship after multiple conversations, they violate my privacy, they send unsolved pics over and over... the list goes on

[Anonymous]

A girl literally agreed to go to the movies with me. I was willing to pay for everything. She always says hi to me when she sees me. We smile a lot at eachother. And she doesn’t respond the day we were supposed to go. Honestly early 20s is the worst time to get into a relationship. Guys are brain dead. Women can’t commit. Just... no

[cavmanier]

Ghosting to me only makes sense if you don't know the person. I find it odd to do that to someone you've been seeing.

[SexyAshh]

I've recenetly ghosted my ex after he wanted to try again.

There comes a time after countlessly stating a reason and not being heard, that you realize your worth and move on with your life.

[Scarecrow13]

I would never do that. The only time I haven't responded is either when there is a logical conclusion to the conversation, or I am unable to at the moment and just forget later. Of the latter, I generally try to get back later.

[diphylleiagrayi]

bcs they're annoying, rude, just seek for what he needs (for example: sex) with never consider my mood, no heart, no feelings, no respect and freak me out enough.
i just want them to be lost.

[Anonymous]

Personally I dont think that ghosting is a real thing.

I think its retarded bullshit made up by children who are too fucking dumb to make contact with people they want to be in contact with because it would mean sending 2 consecutive messages.

[EABsTUQ]

Exactly how I feel.

[Anonymous]

I didn't like the way that I was being treated. I would constantly get disrespected by my ex. He would call me names like ugly, try to exploit me, so that he could laugh, tried to harm me and even threatened me.

[arabgoddess]

If they talk really dirty or if someone is trying to control/dominate me.. that's the only time I do it!

[justawhiteman]

id tell someone why im not a fan of them and let them off... id never ghost thats dirty in my opinion

[likelyOK]

Most definitely

[GuildLegend435]

if i haven't known them for very long, and they start acting like they are out of their mind. rarely happens, though.

[daisy56]

When they’re awful at conversation and we don’t have a connection

[AntiNocturnal]

1. I don't like that person
2. I don't care to talk to them
3. They irritate me
4. I'm not looking/don't see anything progressing

I don't often ghost, though

[CaliforniaSun22]

They are a creep , and are super pushy - and they are aggressive

[R_Cakes91]

Usually when a guy is too rude or is cray cray. Had a few of those in my day.

[Daisy007]

If they're boring aand i'm not interested. I'll get bored & just cut em off

[Somethingwittty]

Being nuckin futs. Sex is usually good but fuck no never again

[TahoeHiker]

" Whats the hype. They're big bulky and that screeching sound as you're getting online is so irritating. I dont see it catching on in all aspects of life"