Cheating ex - PAY BACK?

[kyler25]

so I found out that my girlfriend was in two relationships at once. now the guy and and I have joined forces. we want to show her what she did was not cool and have her feel what it was like for at least one day with the way she made us feel. Anyone know how we can get her back? I know someone has a good story

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I think I'm going to go with the herpes one... I just send him a FB message to see if he would be down... anyone know how to get a piece of doctor script saying I have it? haha

[zombiefood]

The only message you're going to send is that you still care about her enough to obsess over her. Revenge doesn't actually work the way people think it does. All it really does is show that you're clearly not over the person, you still wish they liked you or were with you or respected you and you're just being a winey brat because maybe that will make them come back so that you can act like a child and reject them when they do. All you're saying to her is, "I wish I were still with you because you're hot/nice/great in bed/whatever so I'm going to pout over loosing you and then try and stick it to you". I'd be complimented if a ex of mine tried to seek revenge.

Also, it shows, right away, that she's actually better than both of you. Instead of acting like GROWN ADULTS. Which you are, if you're actually over 18, it's showing that you're immature children who can't get over the past. And who also don't know how to handle rejection, bad luck, or other people in general. You're basically screaming to the world that you're a petty idiot who thinks he really cool because he can humiliate other people and make them feel bad about themselves. You're also saying that you're a massive tool who, when rejected will simply obsess about the person, while claiming you hate her. The kind of logic a six year old would have.

The best thing you can do is to leave it the hell alone. Break up with her, because she betrayed you, and then move on with your life. Don't try to date some one else to really stick it to her, just leave her alone. Forget about her. Don't contact her, and if she contacts you act polite and nonchalant. Just GET OVER IT. I promise you if she was dating both of you at the same time she doesn't really care about either of you and if you both break up with her she'll be hurt, maybe angry that you guys found out but overall she won't care. She'll find a couple of new boy toys to date and won't look back. I work with girls who are just like her and I've seen what happens when the boyfriends try to get together. It doesn't work and doesn't matter in the end.

So give it up, let her go. Not caring about what happens to her and not trying to date to hurt her or move on really quickly just living life normally, showing that she had no effect on you is the best thing you can really do.

[Anonymous]

What is your opinion of now an ex pastor from El Paso Texas?
His name is Junar Lasala he can be found in liarscheatersrus. com
He committed adultery for 9 months with a wife of one of his loyal church member (who knows if he did also to many members), until the husband found their naked pictures together (nine-months later). The pictures were taken at a hotel nearby where the husband and wife lived. The wife and pastor confessed of this infidelity to the husband. The pastor eventually resigned, as a pastor, but still sings in front of the crowd in the mission trips as if nothing happened. The husband and the ex-pastor were friends for 12 years. The husband found a job, left from El Paso to east coast for 6 months to work. Then he moved his family with him to the east coast. After three months the Pastor and Wife were still secretly seeing at the hotel at the east coast. In other words, the Pastor traveled overnight (maybe twice) just to continue with the infidelity nearby where the family moved. The family that the pastor wrecked were married for 20 years with several children. Now they're separated. Does the ex-pastor deserved to be punished? Should the husband seek revenge? What is your best opinion?

[daisyadair123]

haha this was me a couple months ago.. I called him and pretended everything was okay and said iwould meet him up for dinner. he had no idea I new about his other 'gf' soi called her up and said hey, kets go to travis's.

I dress up all sexy for dinner ,walk in and he's like hey babe you look so hot.. and then in walks the other girl behind me hahahah oh god the look on his face. he begged and said he didn't give a sh*t about 'her' it was hilariouse because she was standing right beside me.. any ways I ended up leaving and never talking to him agian..the dumb b..itch I was with ended up hanging out wiith him agian though.. as 'friends' after he said to me in front of her she was f***ed in the head and ugly and he didn't care about her.. anyways... they ended up beig together.. he still texts me all the time.. but I moved on and honestly wish them the best of luck...LOL. there gonna need it.

[themastaplan]

dude, I know you both were in sh*tty situation and its very cool you two "teamed up"...but look, karma is a bitch, why not be mature about it - you lived and you learned. Trust me with the karma...i mean I can't imagine you two coming together and making her feel like sh*t for a day, ruin her reputation if anything..go out, get drunk, be a loud mouth how you got screwed over because your girlfriend had 2 boyfriends at the same time - I think just by saying that, especially around people that know her or you two mutually, it really just screams slut, whore, bitch, etc.

my question to you would be why waste your time planning something to get her back when you can just move on and be the bigger person - again easier said than done, but do you really want to waste your time/effort/breathe on a piece of crap like this...

[IMcanadianEH]

lmao...cheatin bitches hey! Hmmmm, well... I kinda like this, see what you do is cheat on her. BUT you have to do it so that you get caught by her. like having her walking in on the two of you doin it or something to that effect, AND SECONDLY! also very very important, -and for this you might have to swallow your pride for a few hr's but it will be WELL worth it. Ya see, the girl that you are cheating with has to be ugly, overweight, outa shape nasty ass! the reason for this is that when you get caught cheating...your girlfriend will take more offence if it is with a girl that is way nastyier then her. her self esteem will go down as she compairs herself to the nasty fat hag your banging. LMFAO! hey if you go through with that, please let me know how it went!

[Quadrophonic84]

If she hasn't been tested in a while, you could call her up and say you were just tested and it turns out you have incurable herpes. Then two days later, the other guy could call her up super pissed and say he just found out he has herpes. She'll think you gave it to her and she gave it to the other guy. She won't know otherwise until she gets tested. Adjust the way you do this so it makes sense with which one of you fooled around with her first/second.

That seems about right. Have fun!

[BoobMan]

This idea is genius! But why choose herpes? Make it HIV.

[dweebette]

HIV is tricky though, cause it won't show up upon testing until a few months after getting it.

I believe it's three months but don't quote me on that.

It all depends how long that cow has been playing them.

[Quadrophonic84]

HIV seems a little too obvious. Anyway people actually seem a lot more afraid of "annoying" incurable STDs like herpes that don't kill you but just ruin your life.

[Brando]

Yeah, both of you leave her at once. That will show her that neither of you have time for bullsh*t and childish games, which could not be accomplished by getting payback on her. I say don't waste your time on a girl that doesn't seem to care about either of you anyway.

"Living well is the best revenge."

[themastaplan]

love the quote...so true

[Levin]

The best revenge is actually by showing you don't care. Nothing pisses off a person more than demonstrating that they're quite simply not even worthy of your energy. Be the dignified, better person. Else, you'll be demonstrating you're just as petty, hurtful and vindictive as her.

[themastaplan]

agreed!

[Anonymous]

Me being a girl this will probably sound really odd. Honestly the best way to get a girl back in any situation is humiliation... just like daisyadair123 said... have her meet you somewhere. But you already be there have the other guy waiting somewhere so when she sits down and thinks its a date have the other guy come out of "no where" and sit down with you two and just sit there ... watch her squirm... at that point she has nothing else to do but realize how stupid she is.. Good luck man.

[themastaplan]

why would you do herpes...then everyone and their mother will think you do, when you dont...youll screw yourself over in the long run...if you wanna do that then be my guest...probably the dumbest, most immature thing I've heard of...grow up

[Shaun]

Have one of you invite her to her favorite place for a date, especially if she knows people there, then have the other one show up and both dump her in front of her friends.

[WhatTheHellAmy]

Awesome. A scene from Saw came to my head but killing her is not that fun XD

[Anonymous]

two wrongs don't make a right...let karma get her back...be the bigger person and just walk away, don't stoop to her level...

[BigBlueEyes]

sorry, can't agree. when good people let crap people get away with it the bad people are essentially winning. Karma is a fable, or do the japanese earthquake people all deserve it? No such thing as Karma, you want revenge you have to go get it yourself.

[themastaplan]

big blue eyes, yorue totally wrong...karma wins in the end, as for being the bigger person, why not be that guy? and TRUST ME karma is real...my ex way back cheated on me with like 5 dudes, what happened in college - she got a STD while cheatign on her current bf...BOOM! BANG! karma at work...so shhhhhhhh lets be mature, k!? :)