I'm tired of being honest, emotional and a loyal person, I always see trash people having genuine people BUT NOT ME. WHY? Should I change myself?

[Anonymous]

My partner is taking my upset and angry behavior for granted. He ain't changing his mistake (like not checking on me and being emotionally unavailable) but BEGGING ME TO BE HIS LIFE PARTNER FOREVER. Is it SO DIFFICULT FOR HIM JUST CORRECT HIS MISTAKE OR CHECK ON ME?
Why is he so lucky to have an Honest, caring, ambitious and loyal partner like me?
I walked away from his life silently and blocked him everywhere.

[Anonymous]

Good for you! 👏 👏 🙌
The desire for a relationship sometimes makes us choose bad people. It’s a human problem, unfortunate that you have to go through it. Hopefully, he can change or you can find someone better without too much difficulty.

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks lady

[SAMI_DABBAB]

Change things when you see a pattern forming

[Bhavin2184]

Sorry for being rude. About your behavior like being upset and angry could be reason he is not checking you or available for you. What's with questions you posted trash people having genuine people. people dating according to their preference and emotional connection and choose any kind of person. Changing yourself is a stupid thing. you honest deal/break the relationships face to face instead of ghosting and blocking.

[Asker]

I've dealt with it. See the reason I'm getting mad and angry is because HE LIED TO ME about his life AND I CAUGHT HIM. Also before quarantine he will EAT MY PERSONAL SPACE AND PRODUCTIVE TIME and will say i can't live without you i love you. But after this pandemic HE IS NOT BOTHERED ABOUT ME. Doesn't it suck when you see someone being a liar and a hypocrite? That's what changed my KIND, LOVING BEHAVIOR TO RUDE and aggressive.

[Bhavin2184]

Firstly only this guy was scum cheater and angry is valid only for him. But you will definitely find a decent person. But changing your behavior is it necessary it defines you many people around you love like that loving honest kind person

[Asker]

That's the problem with me they love honest, loving people but aren't willing to be loyal and genuine themselves.

[Bhavin2184]

There are many people around world who are loyal and genuine towards their partner. Not everyone is disloyal scum cheater just find right one who love you just the way you are.

[abdel636]

You should choose somebody with all the benign characteristics you look for in your life partner first then if you find that you can get in a relationship with him not the other way around.