Because a guy that doesn't value or respect you or "thinks there's better out there" won't realize that he had anything until even that is gone. Many a man will miss their ex because they realize that they themselves probably dont pull their own weight in building genuine connection. Take most guy friendships. Do they sit around and talk about their feelings? No. They just escape into video games or sports. Post break up, Men realize, oh shit, I have no one to talk to at the end of the day except me. I'm used to having things given to me but now it is just me. I thought the sex was boring but now I have no sex, so I would prefer that.
A mature man will realize that relationships are about give and take-out just give up and let her "win" and take what sex he can get as a result. Real relationships require wanting to give another person a reason to stay. This includes creating a safe warm supportive environment where you take your partners side regardless what their boss or annoying sister or weird friend says.
Post break up a lot of guys realize that they dont even do this for themselves and it doubles their own misery because they have gotten used to someone cheering them on when they are not able to do it for themselves.
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Depends on who it is and how much we cared. My first girlfriend from minute one I missed her.
Depends on the guy. Some guys move on quickly, some don't.
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I hope you are ok and haven’t had to go through a bad breakup. I know for me I felt heartbroken and missed her a lot after a week of likely feeling shock. Do you think he misses you?
It's up to the boy, those which are not in contanct with their emotions might need more time to actually realize they miss you. You can trigger that by getting him jelous.
In love right after the breakup... in a completly sex based relation may be whenver they are alone
Never unless we’re horny and can’t find someone else
As soon as they are horny! There is nothing like a juicy pussy 😋
I don't.
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