We dated for 8 months, and have mutually ended things. It was intense love; he often talked about marrying me, and he would say he wanted a family with me someday. But we were long distance, and since he is joining the military, we knew it was a dead end relationship. He didn't want to put effort in, and I didn't really want to date him anymore. It's like the "honeymoon" phase just ended. Its been a week, and I don't want to get back together or anything, but I just wonder if he's in pain as I am. It hurts to think about, and my curiosity is torturing me. What do you guys think?