Is it normal for me to miss my ex after being broken up for 3 years?

[Anonymous]

[avony12]

I’d say it’s normal. If you guys had a special bond. It’s a feeling that comes and goes. So don’t act on it.

[Asker]

Thank you so much for this information

[UniquelyBasic]

3 years is a long time.

[Asker]

I know... :(

[Wise4myage]

No, you should have moved on a long time ago.

[TenkRealist]

Yeah. It happens.

[Asker]

Has it happened to you? :/

[TenkRealist]

Yup. Even though she cheated. Still miss her. But yeah I'm over her now. Once I find someone, I'll be fine but yeah. It is hard finding someone that loves you as much as you love them.

[Asker]

I agree 100% on that one!

[TenkRealist]

Yeah honestly. Such kind of should get together with each other. Because I can't half ass relationships and play hard to get. If I love someone, I show it.

[Asker]

Exactly! Playing hard to get is literally a manipulation tactic, unless the other person is taking you for granted.

[TenkRealist]

Yeah. Her reason for cheating was that I texted fast (aka desperate according to her) and didn't want to do anything sexual straight anyway. If I text someone, I reply as fast as I can. If I can't reply, I let them know. It is common courtesy instead of taking 15 mins to reply to every text.

[Asker]

No. What you did was fine. She had no reason to cheat. Her loss anyway lmao.

[TenkRealist]

Lol. I'm the one who is still single. She's still banging it out with other guys so yeah. But whatever. We get what we get.

[Asker]

Let her lmao. At least you're a lot happier now and that a lot of weight had been lifted off your shoulders.

[TenkRealist]

Yeah I guess that's true. It would have sucked if I had stayed. We had issues I couldn't say in public but yeah. Hopefully someone nice comes along who is caring.

[Asker]

That’s the same with my relationship with my ex to be honest. We also had a few issues that we needed to work on too. Quite a few, actually. 😕

[TenkRealist]

Eh. Not the issues you're thinking. I just feel uncomfy saying it in comments that's all. She asked me to do certain things so yeah. She never had love in mind.

[Asker]

Yes, I get you. The same thing happened to me, except he actually did genuinely love me and I felt it.

[TenkRealist]

I see. Good for you at least. But yeah after that I was in depression for a bit took some time off and yeah started Uni after.

[Asker]

Yeah, That's totally understandable. Apparently my ex got really depressed after we broke up as well. :/

[TenkRealist]

I see. Well maybe you should go back then if you like him.

[Asker]

I'm not sure what would happen if I do go back though. :/

[TenkRealist]

Could you tell me in detail what happened? If not in comments then chat is fine too.

[Asker]

Uhh yeah. Definitely not in the comments lmao.

[TenkRealist]

Sure. :)

[Asker]

But yeah, he was crying when I broke up with him, but I had valid reasons to break up with him.

[TenkRealist]

Yeah. She didn't care when I said I was done but yeah. I had other reasons than cheating too. Should have seen it coming.

[Asker]

Damn, yeah. Cheating is the worst. He cheated on me as well technically, but right in front of my face.

[TenkRealist]

I see. For me, she did give me signs and then yeah. I found out she cheated with like 4 dudes in meantime.

[Asker]

Like he didn't get into a relationship with the other people. He kissed them when he was drunk. :/

[TenkRealist]

Lol. That's nothing. I'm not defending him. That's still cheating but yeah. It wasn't anything like that for me

[Asker]

But he did other things on top of that too, which weren't just nothing. :/

[TenkRealist]

I see. Mine sucked off a guy at a party/event and then slept with three more across the year. All one night stands. Then had the audacity to ask me to try a MFM threesome.

[Asker]

Damn that absolutely sucks. That's terrible. At least my ex felt bad for what he did, damn.

[TenkRealist]

Yeah apparently she wanted to try cucking or whatever that's called. What's worse was that she started describing what she did with the other guys like I had to hear it. But yeah all that left me broken for a bit and yeah.

[Asker]

That would leave me broken too, if that ever happened to me. Like I'm not 100% putting the blame completely onto my ex. I also could have been better in a few ways myself.

[TenkRealist]

Well if you still like him, go back to him. Or else, move on. Talk to some other guys. You'll forget eventually.

[Asker]

Yeah, it's difficult for me to say from here to be honest. :/

[TenkRealist]

Would you prefer I message you on any other platform?

[Asker]

I will message you. It's all good! :D

[TenkRealist]

I've messaged back :)

[Asker]

All good! :D

[Asker]

I didn't receive your message for some odd reason. :/

[TenkRealist]

Maybe I have to follow you too?

[TenkRealist]

Can you see it now?

[Asker]

Yes! All good. :)

[EdwinLivingston_]

Not normal i guess

[Asker]

Damn... :/

[EdwinLivingston_]

But it's not that hard to forget. Just find a new guy

[Asker]

True!

[SunnyREDone]

No that's an issue