After a breakup, how long does it take you to miss them?

[sage2021]

[ilistengood]

Well I've been divorced for 20 years now , still hasn't happened but my very first girl friend i still think of very often

[DailyFairy]

Men with their first love

[ilistengood]

I guess thats true isn't it, I miss other ladies I've been with but I have to admit my first loves the only one I think of daily, is that wrong should I have let her go years ago? Im honestly curious what you think please.

[DailyFairy]

I don't know what happened between u too but if it doesn't involve cheating, beating and lack of love, everything can be fixed between a couple. Regretting it now doesn't fix anything, next time do better cuz it's not fair for the other lady u will be with if u still can't forget ur first love.

[exitseven]

I think the real question is how long does it take to stop missing them.

[ilistengood]

Daily fairly, you are absolutely correct thank you

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO😎

[OlderAndWiser]

I felt the sense of loss immediately, but I reminded myself that I miss the good times. I didn't miss the bad times, but each person is a package deal and you get the bad along with the good. I usually tried to distract myself by keeping busy or doing something unusually nice for myself. And I allowed myself to cry a few tears because I felt better after I let that out.

[lorenzomichael]

I chose not to get to attached to anyone after my wife and I separated after 20 years. However I kept our big ass house all of my cars. I lost nothing and the fact that my 22yr old daughter lives with me, I now have women that come and go but never do I ask if they want to move in. And I really don’t like that, it’s just seem that they want to become the next wife to soon so they never last more than 7 months or so. But while I’m with these women I make sure we get to know each other and have fun while doing it.. I’m not a asshole leading any of them on I just know what I don’t want, so I don’t get to attached so I get over them pretty quick sad to say..

[ArrowheadSW]

In some cases, I didn't miss them at all. In fact, I was GLAD to have been split up. In other cases, I missed them right away. One lady who I dated for over a year when I was in my mid-twenties... I missed her right away, even though the relationship had run its course and it was good to have parted ways. But I was also good friends with HER friends and her two brothers, so it was like losing half of my social life when she and I split up. I could still hang out with her brothers though, even though she and I were split up.

[aaron13547]

Depends how worth missing they are... I try to put myself around people I miss a lot because that's how you live life to the the fullest. I don't think it's bad to miss someone it's to remember you had good times. That being said, i think people feel the emotion of missing people wrong... it's not meant to feel bad or like somethings gone it's to push you to make more times like that. Live for the moment, make tomorrow the best it can be, and you will cherish all things left in the yesterday

[TrimmedTip]

Depends on how it ended. A slow fade? I miss them before they’re even gone. A nuclear fight? Give me 3 weeks of rage-cleaning and suddenly—oh shit, their laugh pops into my head. Grief’s a sneaky bastard like that

[Sunrising]

Depends on the circumstances of the breakup, and who initiated the end of the relationship.

I'll remember them forever whatever the circumstances.

[molonski2]

I think you mean " to stop missing them."

I never missed my ex wife at all , but all of the many others , even all the ones I broke off , I think of probably 90.% of them quite regularly.

Would you call it missing? hmm , no really , but thinking yeah , I'm not sure that you just never miss them , reasons and circumstances.

[trumpetplayerforlife]

Depends on what I miss about them do i miss the sex or the conversation

[Ms_Facesitter]

Forever. I never missed them, I did miss some moments. But not them. We have to move forward, not backwards.

[leahzrc]

I never get too attached. I don't miss these people. But I hope they are happy without me.

[dudeinohio]

For like 90% of my relationships, I never missed them. I just moved on.

[Anonymous]

I don't know, I never had a breakup, on the other hand, I never had a relationship either.

[cavedweller1973]

It depends on if they broke up with you or if you broke up with them

[Likes2drive]

Not long at all

[itsannalee]

Once i break up, I would never miss them.

[Pterodon]

Depends on depth of feelings involved

[qwerty2469]

I never missed them. It is what it is.

[LiamJHayden]

I don't.

[Sam1133]

After breakup she doesn't exist for me...

[sage2021]

WOW!