How long does it take you to miss someone?

[supsupsupsup]

I recently told a crush of a year and some that I like him and I believe we should stop talking for a short while due to some circumstances, such as; Distance, he is currently going through a break up, I feel like he should be alone for a while so I'm not a re-bound. He said, I understand why you told me, and just talk to me when you're ready, I'll be here and nothing will be weird, or different. I said K... he said K?! Ahh.. Well, talk to me when you're ready, I'll miss talking to you. I said This isn't helping my feelings situation, but I'll miss talking to you too. It's only been about a week, I don't feel like caving yet. But, I noticed that my plan has sort of backfired. We went from talking everyday the last two months (with previous talking, two years before) to this, nothing. It's a huge change, but I notice the more I don't talk to him, the stronger my feelings are... When do you think would be a good time to tell him that I'll just have to deal with my feelings, but continue to do what makes me happy, which is talk to a great person? What would you do in this situation?

[shocker7689]

It depends on how attached I am to the person, I was once in a long distance relationship and as soon as we left each other I missed her. If this were me in your situation then most likely I would crack, especially if I had strong feelings for the person. Also I would ask my self if I was willing to deal with the distance and if so then I would call her and let her know how I felt, especially if you feel like that person is pretty special. This is definitely a though position that you are in since I understand what you broke off contact to being with, whatever decision you make though will be a good one no matter what the ending is. I hope I helped a little and good luck!

[supsupsupsup]

I wanted to crack the next day, this person is extremely special to me, but I don't know if I'm what's best for them, but I thank you for your advice :)

[DeepBlue]

I'm not sure why you felt the need to go from one extreme (every day) to another (nothing). You're not a re-bound based on talking to him once in a while, it doesn't mean you have to be in a relationship with him. A week isn't that long either, give it another week at least.

[supsupsupsup]

I was recently hurt, and I didn't want it to happen again, hence the extremes.

[superstretch]

u need to talk to them tell them how you feel and what you were trying to do if you guys like each other you both will understand one another do what you feel go back and talk to him like you want to silly

[Anonymous]

I think it'd be just fine to contact him, see how he's doing, to catch up.