What would you do if you found messages from a girl on your spouse's phone from another person sending kissy faces 😘?

Okay there are 2 possibilities. Number 1 He's lying and hiding something shady. The turn around is shady but it can also mean a "oh no its not like this, please let this not be a fight" turn around which leaves us at the 2nd possibility. That this woman keeps sending him those things and he doesn't like it (hence he deletes it) but can't tell her that this needs to stop to avoid any awkwardness with her. This could be both honestly and I'm not sure. I think if he's so careless leaving his phone and FB around then he might be telling the truth cuz no one would leave their lies open like that. But then again thats not a guarantee. Keep an eye open I'd say.
Thanks I didn't even think about that. I didn't confront him when I screenshoted the messages. I don't like arguing with him. We almost don't argue. Thank goodness. You have a point with the awkwardness part. He is a sweet person he is the type to be friends with anyone. But I will keep my eyes open.
I would talk to them about it because that's border line cheating, never a reason to send kiss emojis
Well firtsly you do have an issue with the messages because eyou clearly felt the need to screenshot them, he's not daft he knows this, hence the deletion in hopes of avoiding drama. That's the most innocent outcome. Another one could be that there may be infidelity otmr thoughts of. The real test will be when the baby comes as many men feel pushed out then and can look elsewhere for whta they feel they're missing, not that that's justified in any way, just that it's not uncommon. Have the courage to be honest with yourself and him adn figure out what's best from there.
If it was shady though I can't see him leaving his phone lying around, unless he's daft.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!This is a disaster. Why are you going through his phone? Why is he talking to other girls? smh
I usually don't the message came in and I caught a peek then he signed into his Facebook on my phone
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