So first of all I want to say that I am married expecting my first child. This is where things get interesting, so on Saturday night my husband leaves his phone unattended and I see a message from a girl sending him kissy face emojis. I asked him about it and usually he's pretty open, but he gave me the turn around. He told me it was just a friend and she does that to all her friends. I dismissed it believing him. I know I'm wrong for doing this, but when I checked on Sunday the messages were deleted. That same Sunday he signed in on his Facebook on my phone and forgot to sign off. On Monday I looked through the messages and what do I see. That same girl telling him my love, and sweetheart. I screenshoted the messages. Usually after work he goes on the computer to work on photoshop his hobby so I leave him to it. I usually read. Instead I look back and the messages are gone. Now if the messages are innocent fun I would see no need to delete them. It's the fact that he does delete the messages that makes me suspicious. I have no problem with him having friends that are girls give me people to talk to when we hang out.