Girlfriend sending weird messages to coworker?

[Anonymous]

Asked this the other night but only got a few answers (prolly cause it was around midnight when I posted)

So I found out the other from one of my managers at work that my girlfriend has been sending a lot of strange texts to another male coworker. The coworker told the manager all of the following while they were working together

She apparently has tried a couple times to get him to pick her up from bars while she was drunk, she’s asked him to bring her food or pick her up to get food, she once got drunk and told him that she was good at giving head because earlier that day he had made a joke about how she looked like she’d be bad at it, she was once at a club and blew up his phone trying to get him to pull up to which he refused. She then told him she was hungry and wanted a snack, he ignored this

Is this cheating? Supposedly the coworker wanted to tell me but didn’t know how bc I’m “a sweetheart”, coworker is a good dude it seems but I don't know what to make of this

[worldscolide]

Not cheating yet, but it sounds like she wants to and will eventually.

[DrPepper12]

Dude, she's DTF this guy DESPERATELY! Cut her loose

[AI Opinion]

Oh, the tangled webs we weave when first we practice to deceive... or flirt outrageously with coworkers! It sounds like your girlfriend's actions have lit up some fireworks in your relationship that you weren't quite prepared for. Let's break it down: Sending "weird" messages, trying to get picked up from bars, and vocalizing opinions on her... erm, talents, certainly raises more than an eyebrow. It verges into a territory that many would label as emotionally unfaithful, at the very least. While some might argue "it's just text," the intent and intensity matter. It's like she's fishing in another pond while keeping you as her steady sea.

Your next steps? Communication, my friend. It's time for an open heart-to-heart, where you share how these revelations make you feel without engaging in a blame game. Setting boundaries is key in any relationship. Remember, it's not just about if it's cheating in the black-and-white sense; it's about respect, trust, and boundaries. Good luck navigating these choppy waters! 🌊💔

[CubaPirate]

She wants to cuckold you I'd say