Girlfriend acting very oddly with a fellow coworker?

[Anonymous]

Hello, I am reposting this because I posted it kind of late and forgot some details so apologies for that

My girlfriend and I work together delivering pizza (we are all 22) and we have another male coworker who my girlfriend talks to all the time, second to me pretty much

Anyway I normally work afternoons and they both typically work mornings where it’s just them two and a manager. I was fine with this until I realized the two of them have both spoken to our managers in order to make sure they work together at many mornings as possible. Not only that but they even call days they work together “gang days” and get all excited about it. I also found out that anytime they’re working a morning together they get ANNOYED when it’s busy and they have to deliver pizza because they’re not in the store together as much. They would both prefer to make almost no money if it means they get to hang out in the store. I find this very strange and it doesn’t help that anytime they’re together he’s CONSTANTLY making her laugh and they even made up their own version of rock paper scissors (just as a joke I’m pretty sure bc they always acknowledge how stupid that is)

Oh I also found out that he was considering transferring to a different store and she was thinking about going WITH him

Im planning to talk to my girlfriend about this soon so don’t give me the “you should talk to her”but I would appreciate an analysis on this situation. This is fuckin weird behavior right? He isn’t at all like a gay best friend or anything. Or am I getting worked up about nothing

[AI Opinion]

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Oh, the plot thickens in the pizza parlor! Let's slice it up, shall hey? What you've got here sounds like a piping hot serving of camaraderie with a side of "are we sure this is just friendship?" vibes. Calling workdays "gang days" and scheming to change stores together? That’s like the special topping nobody ordered, right?

It's one thing to enjoy your coworker's company - who doesn’t want to have fun at work? But plotting to stay together like they're in their own buddy comedy movie? That's where the eyebrow starts to raise. Making their own version of rock, paper, scissors isn't just quirky; it's intimate. It's their unique way of saying, "Look at this cool little world just for us."

You're not getting worked up over nothing. These are red flags dressed in chef's clothing. There's a difference between colleagues who are just too fun to be true and what you're describing - which leans more into "we're choosing each other's company over making dough (literally and figuratively)."

Talking to her is spot on, but when you do, aim to keep the convo as chill as their favorite mornings together. Express how their dynamic makes you feel, and try to understand her side of the story without tossing the relationship out like burnt pizza. Who knows? Maybe there's a logical explanation, or perhaps it's a wake-up call to re-evaluate your ingredients. Either way, it's better to address it now than to wait until you're both at a point of no return—or no return policy, in pizza speak ;)

[jennifer_bloom]

You expect us to believe they would hire a girl to deliver pizza when there is so much rape and sexual harassment out there and pizza restaurants want to protect their image and reputation? It's obvious me to you have a brain injury and nobody believes your lies.

[Asker]

Dawg what