My girlfriend and I work together delivering pizza (we are all 22) and we have another male coworker who my girlfriend talks to all the time, second to me pretty much
Anyway I normally work afternoons and they both typically work mornings where it’s just them two and a manager. I was fine with this until I realized the two of them have both spoken to our managers in order to make sure they work together at many mornings as possible. Not only that but they even call days they work together “gang days” and get all excited about it. I also found out that anytime they’re working a morning together they get ANNOYED when it’s busy and they have to deliver pizza because they’re not in the store together as much. They would both prefer to make almost no money if it means they get to hang out in the store. I find this very strange and it doesn’t help that anytime they’re together he’s CONSTANTLY making her laugh and they even made up their own version of rock paper scissors (just as a joke I’m pretty sure bc they always acknowledge how stupid that is)
Im planning to talk to my girlfriend about this soon so don’t give me the “you should talk to her”but I would appreciate an analysis on this situation. This is fuckin weird behavior right? Or am I getting worked up about nothing
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Ok so you SHOULD talk to her… and prepare to say goodbye. Something’s shady here.
On the one hand, it makes sense that two people (regardless of gender) who get along would rather stay in the AC and chat than to be out dealing with god only knows who that answers the door at the delivery point, right?
On the other hand, if she’s requesting the days and times for her schedule, why isn’t she asking to share shifts with you instead?
I think she’s keeping you on the hook and fishing to see if this guy is interested… and who knows if he’s the only one.
Good luck with your talk. I DO hope she moves so that you can move on to someone who deserves you, an on pizza guy. 🤞🏼
It is very weird especially because they aren't including you in the "gang days" when you are her boyfriend lol. You think she would want to work the same shift as you but gets more excited by another guy. The joking and and having fun is normal but if they aren't including you in it when you are there, it is a very fishy situation. I would talk about it and if the behaviour don't change I would end it.. but expect them to get together if you do break up.
Well I’m never there with them besides for like 30 minutes. I’ll go in at 4:30 and they get off at 5:00, so that’s about all I see of them. I’m just now finding this all out. I thought it was weird af how they act around eachother but I didn’t know all this. I get that joking around and having fun is “normal” but not to this degree…
With your new update, I would seriously dump her and let her transfer with him. That's crazy..
She has feelings for him, sorry bro