My coworker has a girlfriend but acts flirty towards me?

[Anonymous]

I just recently started a new job in retail and my coworker is super nice and attractive. I overheard that he has a girlfriend a while ago and it kinda threw me off because he acts kinda flirty around me if I interpret it right. He’s 21 and I’m 19. We talk a lot when we’re working together and we pretty much have the same style/ music taste/ interests. But I sometimes feel a tension between us and he leans into me/ comes very close to me a lot. Like he’s subtly touching my arm or something. For example he once spotted a lint on my shirt so he came pretty close and removed it. He is a very open person but I can’t judge if he’s just being friendly or if he likes me. I know that I’m a pretty girl (without being conceited) just fyi, but since he has a girlfriend I’m kinda confused what’s going on. I don’t have a lot experience in that field, so I would appreciate any opinions/ advice!

[EmyyWolf]

As an adult in mid-20’s. This guy already cheated on his girl. So if you like him and you want some action. And you’re working a mediocre job. GO FOR IT. IF YOU DONT… you’ll regret not getting it while it was fresh.

Wtf you got to loose… specially if he doesn’t have children with her… obviously he doesn’t even love her if he’s touching you and looking at you.

GIRL TRUST ME… Give it a chance this could potentially be your future man. You can’t put off chances in life, because a groups of CHURCH-NUTS tell you what to do. You’re an adult now. You can explore adult things now!! You’re a grown adult. Grown ass adult.
Give it a go!!

[EmyyWolf]

Let me tell you. I had chances like that in my early 20’s. I didn’t give it a chance. I didn’t allow myself to explore. And now I regret it every single damn day. Because I chose to listen to some sinner Church-Nuts.
🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

Remember what I’ll tell you here: NEVER listen to others. You’re an adult. No one should have the power to dictate your life and have power over you. BE SAFE AND BE SMART. AND HAVE FUNNN. 💜♥️💜♥️💜♥️

[EmyyWolf]

What I’m mainly saying is: You do you. Do as you please. Have your own mind.

Don’t allow the judgement of a crowd of sheep 🐑 dictate your every action. Because these sheep 🐑, are the biggest damn sinners alive right now. GOOD LUCK 🍀

[Asker]

Thanks for sharing your opinion. I love your energy and you’ve truly given me inspiration for my life. I will do whatever I want and I will have fun while I’m still young🙌🏼🫶🏻

[EmyyWolf]

You’re welcome! 🙂👍. But do BE SMART, BE SAFE, and use your GUT. Your own instinct will tell you where to turn 👍.
Also the Internet an help you learn a lot about the guys you meet.
If you’re going out with guys a trusted friend or sibling should know the address of where you are going just in case. Obviously If you won’t tell your parents. 👍

[whirled_up_girl]

Some guys are friendly to point of seeming like they a flirting but it really is just there personality. If he were single I would he's most likely interested but since he has a girlfriend and he knows that you know about it he might be thinking he can get away with being extra friendly. I've noticed this about plenty of married guys and others in serious relationships, they'll be flirty with me and other female co-workers but then stress they fact that they have a wife or girlfriend as they don't want the friendliness to be misinterpreted. I will admit it can be annoying.

[SixInchesSoft]

Men are simple. Not everything is always about cheating or not cheating (although, he may be willing to cheat, but that is besides my point). Men want to flirt because men like attractive girls, its very natural for us to want to impress an attractive girl. Thats it. Many guys are slightly flirtatious with girls but would never cheat, they are just being themselves and being honest.

Of course, he may be fully open to cheating as well.

[strateguy632]

seems like he plans on cheating follow your heart.

[sheikalana]

Keep in mind that he has a girlfriend regardless if it's true or not. If you have that much free time at work to talk to each other you'll obviously talk about whatever and maybe you're reading too much into it. Keep it professional and remember that you're there to work and not to flirt around with your co-workers it's fine to talk to each other you're not two robots but do not push things to another level and do not overthink. Not all interactions with men and women have to end in hookups.

[cuteangelprincess]

Someone on here said to go for it or whatever. I can't reply to this person but I'd like to state my own opinion.
If this guy is in a relationship and flirts with other girls, he will surely flirt with ither girls while together with you. I don't know if you'd want someone unfaithful like that to be your husband.

[Jazzy54]

Be friendly and professional with him. Don’t flirt back with him.

[Anonymous]

Beware, men are cheaters. Don't lower yourself to their level.

[Avicenna]

He sure sounds interested in cheating

[KrakenAttackin]

He wants to go balls deep in you.

[Anonymous]

Where's the problem?