I broke up with my ex and he said this?

[FashionistaChick]

I broke up with my boyfriend because I caught him cheating. We were sharing location with each other, but after the breakup I decided to stop sharing my location with him. An hour later he decided to stop sharing his location with me then he started sharing it again then told me “just be good baby girl” like what does that even mean!

[meetkitty123]

Every morning I sit with my man over coffee and we share something we read on the net. Today I shared your story because I wanted the insight from a man I know I can trust. Well it turns out my mens Opinion is the same as mine.

Your boyfriend has not shown remorse. He is conceited and overconfident. He believes you will come back to him so he isn't worried about what he did.

My mans exact words were

"The man clearly said what he said because he doesn't respect her and he's showing off. He thinks he is really something. I bet he is saying to himself... 'I got her well trained and where I want her. She is mine and she won't leave so I can do whatever the fuck I want'... If her man really cared for her he wouldn't think that way and he wouldn't have laid with another. She is better off without him. She needs to find someone who will value her and she needs ti stay the hell away from that selfish ass."

I completely agree with my man. I purposely asked a mans opinion to Make sure I wasn't being gender bias. Cut all ties with him. Do not be his welcome mat. Block his location sharing and ignore his daunts or bait.

Don't let get caught in his fishing net or hook.

Be strong. Your done. No buts ifs or ands about it.

Its his loss not yours.

[FashionistaChick]

He sent me a long message this morning. Basically saying that he started talking to this person after an
argument we had. He also said he didn’t think I was into him the way he was into me, and how he felt a connection with the girl because they shared common interests. He told me I’m an amazing person and he feel shitty that this happened, he also said he wants to move forward and think positive and still communicate with me

[meetkitty123]

🙄
Great the "I treated you like shit and embarrassed you but I would love it if we remain close so it can be rubbed in your face how I didn't find you worth wild enough to make you my wife and needed to chase tail." Nonsense.

He is conceited. He is blaming you for straying. Claiming if you showed him more interest he wouldn't have had to look else where.

If he was really "into" you and truly thought you "amazing" he wouldn't have strayed. He would have worked double time to make certain he kept your interest.
he's playing the fields.
Keeping you close as a fall back/ backup

Forget that nonsense you don't owe him anything.

[FashionistaChick]

Thank you, I really appreciate you
talking to me. I haven’t responded to him... he’s been calling and texting me. I’m just sad and hurt

[meetkitty123]

You're welcome. Give it space. You need to tend to yourself. You don't need to worry about his petty emotions. You were not who did wrong. It was he.
Dont comfort him or build his ego up by replying
Block it so you dont hear it or see it.
You dont need more stress. You are vulnerable right now so you need to focus on yourself keep yourself emotionally protected put up a block until you you are feeling better.

[FashionistaChick]

Thank you so much

[meetkitty123]

🙂 🤗

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Means he thinking only of himself and not you. Like you're supposed to just go along with what HE wants, like a good Little girl. F that, tell him to have the other chick be good baby girl.

[NO-ONES-EX]

Why concern yourself with what the foolish think or have to say?
Have you not wasted enough of your valuable time dealing with
unwarranted bs and unnecessary lies. Too much for you to accomplish
than to waste time pondering a fool’s riddle. 🙄💭

[bicjohnson]

Respond with, "No. My new master really likes it to be a bad, bad baby girl."
Then ignore all calls and messages after that point. It should be more than enough.

[OlderAndWiser]

If you broke up, why do you care what he says?

[Anonymous]

“just be good baby girl” wtf he's the one who betrayed you and tells You to be "good"? He wants you to to be docile and take his shit. Please, please don't feed his ego don't lead him to believe he controls you even after the breakup. You deserve better, dump his toxic ass

[roody]

Ignore it, he’s just trying to mess with you. By thinking about it too much, you’re letting him win

[RemoErdosain]

It's just some line. Don't give a shit about it. You did good in breaking up

[Jersey2]

Who gives a fuck. When I was done with an ex, I was done. Move on.

[MrHopper]

Probably trying to blame you for it

[ItsTheNephilim]

Why do you still care so much? Move on from him.

[TonyBelanger]

forget this guy