She is happier without me?

[Anonymous]

After my girlfriend of a year and half left I am left devastated. She posted on Facebook how she is completely happy about her decision and is happy in general. I feel betrayed because when we were together we made plans for weddings, we lived together, I almost proposed to her, we talked about the future of us and for to say that she is VERY happy being away from me is leaving me depressed and anxious. Should I be happy for her. I know I should but I'm not. I want her to be miserable without me like I am miserable without her. Am I selfish

[ianm91]

She is a girl. A little girl. S

She ain't no woman. A woman is mature and thoughtful as a man would be, and not a little boy who pouts about not getting the biggest T-Rex toy in Toys R Us.

How he's publicly announced she's so happy that she's left you, that is pretty shallow, selfish, and a bitch move. She's immature to realize what she's done and been doing. When she grows to be a more thoughtful person she'll realize.

I know how you feel, this girl I gave my all too left me and then just preached it to her friends that I was obsessed and sh*t. Which was totally incorrect, she was the crazy one turned out who kept coming back to contact me. I wish I had found this website earlier to help me for advice, but since I learned how to deal with it on my own it's helped me to be wiser and so now I can help others.

I understand how you feel. I know totally. I told my ex-gf. When I was dating her, I said to her I was going to one day Stand before you on one knee. And she just smiled and was happy. So you can imagine how happy and more in love I felt, but then she left and is with another guy. She's just a bitch and a little girl turns out.

I know how you want your ex to feel miserable, Karma will get her back for what she has done. It may not come in this year or next. But she will feel the pain she's given you 3x as bad. And when she feels like complete sh*t and no one wants to deal with her stupid drama, she's going to come back to you probably and try to talk.

You know what to do, you just be polite and tell her, Sorry but I've been over you for a long time now after what you did. And just leave that sh*t behind. She's just a memory, a bad experience, that taught you more about yourself and her bad side.

We've been with bitches and dealt with them. I wished my Ex would feel the pain or that she just died cause that's how she made me feel, wanting to die or just end it myself cause she was such a bitch about everything and all of it.

F*** this girl that left you dude. Reading your situation just blows, I know being depressed and anxious is the worst feeling over a girl.

I mean.. I smoked some bud and that helped, but I had to be proactive about it and not just sit there and dwell. but I hope you feel better dude, f*** this girl though, someones gonna take you who wants the same, that's what I'm waiting for too, I was left back in August. Almost a year ago, and its been a hell of a ride. Hope all goes well dude.

[Quadrophonic84]

No, you shouldn't be happy for her. That's politically correct BS. That bi*ch tore your heart out and is publicly dancing on it through her candy ass FB profile. You are not selfish. Cut her out of your life completely and do not talk to her or look at her profile again until you don't miss her anymore. It's hard but it's the easiest way. Every other way will just cause more pain than this.

[Jessiemarie03]

Hey don't worry:(, I did that once but not becuz I was a "bi*ch*, I did that to let him know i was happy, for him to not look at me weak after the break up, she's prolly still thinking about you, maybe she wants you to see that she's happy to make u feel jealous, but really inside its killing her, becuz I'm guessing no girl wants to look weak after a break up

[megannnxx]

No you are not selfish at all. To give yourself to someone fully is a huge deal. So you shouldn't feel bad if you want her miserable as you are.