My ex & I were together 6 months & everything was great for 4 of them but she always would say stuff even in the beginning that was negative towards the relationship & made me paranoid I really like her a lot & miss her so much. I'll admit for a while I was really unconfident in our relationship & would ask questions about our relationship to try & make sure we were ok & she always told me it didn't bother her & she wanted me to feel secure & then eventually she got mad & told me to work on asking them anymore which I did & never asked them again & then a month later she said her & her mom were talking & they think just because I haven't asked those questions in a month doesn't mean I won't start up again which she said a month earlier that she would give me a chance to change & then I did & she still broke up with me. Her mom was always saying stuff whether it was calling me dependent for not wanting to go to the hospital which is because I didn't have insurance at the time & then saying I was unconfident beyond repair which I was unconfident but I fixed it & when she broke up with me she said she didn't know why & she was really confused but she said all these possible problems which one was that I wasn't a challange which early on she told me not change because she liked me for who I am & how I am & she even went as far to say she started hating me at times. I don't know what I did. Her mom & her were always talking about how sweet I was & how good I was to her & how I am the best boyfriend she's ever had. She also told me I was the only guy she would ever consider going back too. I have talked about the brake up more in other posts but I miss her a lot & I really want her back but my friends & family say I'm better off with out her because she was very selfish & was always putting me down. I haven't even tryd to talk to her since the break up nearly a month ago & she hasn't try'ed contacting me either I also blocked her on fb only so I could cope. help?