If my boyfriend destroys my house that I own (still paying for) will it be covered by my home insurance? ?

Read your policy and/or ask your agent. I can understand not wanting to bring this up with your agent, so maybe ask a different agent.
This is a total guess, but I'm guessing it would not be covered. I dropped my homeowner's policy a number of years ago, and I don't remember the wording on things it does or does not cover.
It might make a difference if he is living there or not, which you didn't make clear.
Also, ask neighbors to keep an eye on the place while you are gone. Tell them that nobody should be there without you calling them and letting them know it's OK.
Nope your insurance won't cover you unless you prove that he was never welcome in your home
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I don’t know check with your company and your policy
Yes except for the deductable and you would need to have the police involved
What does your policy say.
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