My ex emailed me today on my birthday? Should I respond?

[Anonymous]

Short: we’ve been broken up since the end of June and he basically lost his mind acting crazy and coming to my apartment to beg for forgiveness. He also came to job and he harassed me constantly texting me and calling over and over. I told him off last month that i didn’t care for him and today I received an email from him even AFTER he’s been blocked...

[kkirk4442]

You should pay no attention to a text or call from someone who has harassed you in the past. If he persists, tell him to stop one time only, making it clear you do not want contact. If the harassment continues, notify the police.

[Danny_dan92]

For your sake and sanity. Don’t.


If it didn’t work out, it’s for a reason.


He is only reaching out to you because he has no other option and is currently in a dry spell

[Asker]

I decided it’s best off that I ignored him. He’s blocked on every social media platform and plus I blocked his number. I broke up with him but this was about 7 months ago and I’ve been trying to be happy and forgot he was a part of my life but he’s making it literally impossible.

He went as far as to finding my Gmail account, which is really weird because I don’t give my email out. And he’s blocked there too but he can STILL get through.

[Danny_dan92]

It’s for your own good! 👍🏼

[Asker]

Do you think I should tell him to leave me alone or leave it be?

[Danny_dan92]

He most likely won’t leave you alone even if you tell him.

So you’re better off just blocking him

[Elenabella]

Maybe u can respond his message by saying that ı will complain u to police. Because even if u block him in every fields, he continues abuse u and it is a crime. To ignore these messages is not a solution.

[melnc]

Why did you breakup?

[Asker]

It’s a long story. He has anger problems and would constantly get mad at me and he would curse at me and call me names. This went on for long 8 months. He also has cheated on me multiple times and I caught him every single time. He didn’t have a car so I was driving him literally everywhere. He also constantly asked me for money and quite frankly, I had enough of his abusive behavior so I broke it off.

He went batshit crazy. Came to my apartment in the middle of the night to make a scene and I called the cops on him. Then he went to my parents house, lied to both my mom and dad to say he was homeless, and then he did the same thing at my job and I ended up getting him banned from the store I work at. by the way, we broke up 7 months ago... I just want to forget about him but he won’t let me