My ex unfollowed me on Instagram?

[Anonymous]

And removed me from following her like 2 weeks after she apologised and agreed to be friends? Why?

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[CallMeDave]

It's hard to know, but my guess would be that either she was finding that maintaining that contact was making it harder for her to move on or some friends or even random people on an internet site like this one told her she should avoid any contact with you in order to be able to move on.

I personally don't think that's usually necessary and I have stayed in contact with all of my exes for at least a while after we broke up, but there are a lot of people that think breaking all contract with an ex is the best thing to do.

If it's because she just needs some time to deal with the breakup and move on, then maybe at some point in the future (6 months? a year?) she'd be willing to reconnect with you on Instagram or elsewhere.

[Avicenna]

Only she knows. Maybe a mutual friend may also know

[Asker]

Any idea

[Hopelessromantic182]

She probably thought she could be friends with you but changed her mind. Probably too hard to have some form of contact.

[Visionary7]

This^

[Anonymous]

I usually do this. It makes moving on easier. When there’s no hope for reconciliation then out of sight out of mind.

[Asker]

But why was she so nice to begin with.. then she deleted a message she sent before I opened it, then deleted me off Instagram randomly

[Opinion Owner]

Breaks ups are hard. She prob feels like she has so much to say yet doesn’t feel it needs to be said: that’s prob why she deleted the messages.
Begging in a breakup is bad. Makes u feel worthless so you need to be “nice”. I’ve done all those things so I know exactly how she feels. Lol did you suggest ending the relationship?

[Asker]

It was mutual

[Anonymous]

That is what should happen. Move on.

[Iron_Man]

Wishy washy