He broke up with me unexpectedly after a six month whirlwind romance. He saw me with another man and got angry. Why is he doing this?

NellyD42
We met online, and the connection was immediate when we met in person. It became serious very quickly. After 6 months he broke up with me unexpectedly. I was devastated. We kept in contact via text, here and there. We would bump into each other at the gym and have short awkward conversations. Eventually this turned into hooking up again. We linked twice. It was super passionate, mind blowing intimacy. We still remained cordial even after the hook ups. Then one day he saw my social media and I had a video posted of myself with an old friend (male) and we gave each other a friendly “peck” kiss in a drunken moment and my ex flipped. He blocked me on everything. I eventually got through to him via text and he let me have it! He said I “made my choice”, “I must have never loved him like I said I did”, etc. Then he proceeds to tell me that he had someone “waiting to start talking to him and he decided it was a go ever since he saw my social media post”. I’m so confused because he ended things, he broke it off. I truly loved him and was crushed when he ended our relationship. I was blindsided by the abruptness of the break up. I feel terrible that this hurt him, but that was never my intent, I was just with an old friend. Why is he acting like this? I still love this man, even though it was a short time of being together. You know how you have this undeniable connection with someone, it’s unmatched, it fits like a glove, so to speak. Did I truly do something wrong or did I just bruise his ego?
He broke up with me unexpectedly after a six month whirlwind romance. He saw me with another man and got angry. Why is he doing this?
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