Or when you have lost your job or death, so on
Do you keep a person on a good mood before giving them bad news or dump them.
I used to critically evaluate my dating choices the month before my birthday (may) and the first week of November (before Thanksgiving).
If I can't bring them or see myself next year bringing them to a family event, why am I wasting my time?
I think it has to be done in person in a respectful way not some quickie thing before you know she has to go to work. She is still someone I care about.
Dumping someone at a funeral is the lowest of the low!
Thanks for MHO!
Worst times to dump someone:
- Valentine's Day
- Day of when their parent may have passed away
- Christmas Eve/Christmas Day
- New Year's Eve/New Year's Day
- When they are experiencing emotional distress
- Before, at or after a funeral
Best times to dump someone:
- Anytime that isn't one of the cases above
Its inhumane to break up with a girl when she recently gave birth and broke her foot right after, while also losing her children all in one year. Also, she finds out her boyfriend or husband was cheating not with just a girl but with guys too.
It's also messed up to break up with a guy when he recently lost his father, is having financial burden and recently became a father. He's trying his best.
Damn.. This sounds like spoilers for Fast and the Furious 11
Does that sound too specific? Lol
I think probably like when you two experienced the best time of your life and then, "I'm breaking up with you". It's pretty manipulative. So, I guess after sex maybe.
Uhhh... If someone dumped at a fucking funeral they'd be next to be buried. 🙃 That's just not ok. Has someone been dumped at a funeral before? 😭
Well I dump them when I feel it’s not working out. Idc time and place, if I need to let them go, I will let them know immediately.
Oh and when I’d avoid dumping if something really bad already happened in their life, on their birthday...
instead of saying "I do"
but I am only guessing.
as sb said, it always is, just stop wasting their time and get it over with, you're not doing anybody favour
It doesn't matter - if it's time for dumping then dump them. Don't wait a moment longer. LOL
I dumped a girlfriend after sex since I had found out she went out on a date with a guy I knew. I dumped her while my sperm swam around in her. She cried and said nothing happened but I wasn’t go to date her any longer after that event.
During sex or right after is arguably the worst, followed closely by at or after a funeral.
The worst I can think of is during sex AT a funeral but that wasn't an option!
At Christmas time!
I'm pregnant!! 😁🥰 But... Your not the father of the baby. I'm breaking up with you so I can be with the father of my baby! And You deserve better.. good bye...
Valentines day. As happened to me
Dump them at a family funeral for maximum effect.
Holidays or birthday
Anytime is cool.
It’s a tough one, though I know a lot of people have been dumped during the pandemic which I don’t find fair as you are dumping someone when they are most likely at their lowest.
I would at least get through the rough patch especially for something like a pandemic and if things weren’t improving then maybe consider having serious questions but I feel a lot of good relationships have ended based on the stress the pandemic brought and rather than people working through it, they give up