We broke up, how do I find out who I am?

just_a_potato
We broke up, how do I find out who I am?
We ended it. We've broken up before but this time I made sure it's for good. Of course I feel sad, I love him but I'm not staying in a one sided relationship. I'm also weirdly relieved, like I can do things I wouldn't get to. My relationship was my only 'personality' though, it was what defined me. Without him I don't know who I am i'm very fond of my labels. Now I feel so lost. What do I do? (Please don't ask the specific reason we broke up, that isn't what the question is about)
We broke up, how do I find out who I am?
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