Guys: If a girl offers to let you sleep in her bed with her, do you expect to get some action?

[Anonymous]

So a little while ago I was going with 2 of my guy friends to visit another one of our friends (a girl) and one of the guys said he wanted to try and sleep in her roommate's room saying that he wanted to get some since a girl letting a guy sleep in her bed meant that she was willing to do stuff.

Do all guys expect this? Isn't it just polite for a girl to offer her bed if it's that versus sleeping on the floor? I'm moving to a new city soon and know my friends will come visit. Obviously they aren't all going to fit on the couch so I would offer to let one of them share my bed, but in a guy's mind is that a 'hey, lets go hookup?' Thanks :)

[dreamtime]

No, unless there's obvious chemistry between both of you and your both single.

Otherwise you could say I expected an orgy from letting 3 friends (all girls) of mine sleep in bed with me on a weekend out in the netherlands a few weeks ago.

I'm not going to say it doesn't happen, as I'd be lying if I did. Sometimes stuff just happens because it seems like a good idea at the time/feels right or you just want some... Alcohol definately makes the unexpected happen even if you didn't want it to while you where sober.

[krisdaschwab912]

No. I would ask (entirely jokingly to the point where it would be completely obvious) if this were some sort of invitation/proposition, she'd say no, and I'd be like "Alrighty then." And then nothing would happen.

I will say, though, that some cuddling would be great.

I will also say that I would warn the person that I can be a rough sleeper at times.

[CatholicVirginia]

NO! I never mean to offer stuff. I slept in a bed with a guy I barely knew (he was a new friend) just because I felt he was trustworthy and I knew we'd be fine. And we're crazy about each other - as friends.

[Little-Hippie]

If anything,

I find it to be rude and uncustomary to invite a guy into your bed with no intention of sleeping with him. That's simply oxymoronic, deary.

[Shaun]

I figure she expects to get some action.