Guys, How would you react if the girl you are trying to sleep with asks you this?

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So, I think he isn't interested in anything more than sex.. and as much as some of you will judge me, I want a baby and I want his. I love him and i just want him. I don't mind raising the baby alone, paying for everything alone etc.. I just want the dad to still see his babies like 3hrs a week or something..

So back to the question, for him it's just a transaction (I think) .. and before I give it to him, I need to make sure that im winning too.. BUT.. but I do NOT want his $$ .. I have my shit together and I am not interested in his money (he's broke lol.. like, he only has 5$ in the bank that of thing) how much money he has don't interest me tho.. so instead of asking for money, I want his seeds..

Now how's that? If a woman you were tryna slide in demanded your seeds instead of money, and therefore it wouldn't cost you anything, would you prefer that? Or would you prefer to pay her a decent amount?

It sounds okay in my head, but, I do realize that most men might prefer paying any girl than giving his seeds (and have no responsibilities with the baby, this is a donation)

But, will I scare him away by offering this as an option of "payment" ?

How would y'all react?

Lliam · Accepted Answer

It totally depends on the guy. Different guys will have different attitudes.

It actually sounds like a good arrangement to me (or, rather, might have at one time).
I never wanted kids because I didn't want the responsibility. But it would be cool to pass on my genes in a situation like the one you present. I mean, if you are financially capable of taking good care of the child and are eager to do so, I would be happy to be part of both your lives and to be called daddy.

I don't see anything immoral about it or bad for the child. I would basically be a sperm donor with visitation rights. Or, I would even be happy to live together if we liked or loved each other, as long as your were able to financially care for the child's expenses, medical, schooling, etc.

Zayeem · Accepted Answer

i am noticing that u both are into physical attractiveness. If u do it, it's ur choice. But know that man and woman are not equal.
As a male,, i would love to have sex with a girl and not take responsibility.. It's a win-win for him as he is broke.
We have a saying here:-"No matter whether knife falls on a watermelon or the watermelon falls on knife. Only the watermelon gets pieced."
I don't think he'll feel bad as he has nothing to lose and u r taking that "extra" responsibility for everything.

Hellur991 · Answer

Honestly as a man, and as many men out there that would bother us mentally especially if we aren't ready to have a child with a women, even though u guys don't need our money. If he eventually decides to agree with ur terms. This can some how cause issues in the future with him as well as you.

SomothErgai · Answer

To be honest with you, I would agree and fuck the shit out of you. and when it came time to cum I would pull out and shoot my cum in your mouth. I'm not taking any chances with someone crazy. I have no guarantees you won't come after me sometime down the road for child support. and I ain't having that shit. So yeah, I would basically trick you into letting me fuck you again and never give you the baby. And I would keep doing that for as long as you fell for it.

TheorionMage · Answer

I would offer a formal mutually legally-binding tangible pre-copulation document... kills the 'romantic spontaneity' but prevents later changes-of-heart and terms. NONE of this later: "But you SAID..."

Kaneki05 · Answer

Hmm an odd specific view that's so well that.
So you want to be the full time parent but also the dad to be involved like part time and don't care about the money aspect.
Myself don't want kids but if one's saying I won't be the one taking care of them and just been more in their life that might work honestly. And the older they get the better I would be since they become more independent.

I might take that offer. But I am not normal, most guys wouldn't that's for sure.

David94358 · Answer

I was a sperm donor several times so you wanting me to just get you pregnant would not scare me away, but it would open up for a big debate about it

Billlewis · Answer

I chose option three, but in reality, I'd love to be the guy that you settle down with, so I could help you raise another guy's child;)

mistershy94 · Answer

I'm a skeptic by nature so I would think that you were trying to fuck me over, but after careful consideration, I'd say why not? Also, I would raise the baby with you though... Either we get together or no baby

Anonymous · Answer

I think my opinion would be. i think it's cruel that the only way to have children is by having a partner. going through the process of finding someone. takes time. and for some not a lot of us have that time. people don't understand how heartbreaking that is

Juxtapose · Answer

A big primal part of myself would absolutely love this deal. A woman asking me to impregnate her is really hot.

Although if I was going to go through it actually it would be with someone I would trust and we would raise the kid together.

boggboss · Answer

Do u not see how selfish this is u want a kid with a guy because u love him and know he only wants sex and them have another kid without a father figure in their life

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