In Handball, there is a bunch of contact and you have to be ready to push your opponents around a bunch and you get taught how to grab parts of the opponents body legally. The physicality is my favourite part of the sport.
In Wrestling, everyone knows how close you get to your opponent 😂 and in official matches you're against the same gender. However, during practice I tend to wrestle a lot of stronger, bigger guys too, I always love the challenge.
I don't feel uncomfortable being that close and physical with with any gender, but if you were dating me how would you react to these kinda of things?
