When a girl sleeps on your bed?

[primavera]

If you know a girl is really respectful (and beautiful), and she is visiting you outside her city to stay in your "one sofa one bed" flat...

would you use the gentleman trick of offering her your more comfortable bed to sleep on (though implying it would be by your side)?

Cause let's be honest... we all know what he hopes that would happen...

Imagine she accepts the offer. Would the guy take it as a green sign so he can try something? Would she enter the realm of "target"? Does she loses her classiness?

So lets say he tries something subtly... and she doesn't allow much at all, a kiss or two. What would you think? She's a tease? She's playing hard to get? Or she just believed you would be the gentleman you poise to be?

[Anonymous]

Of course if a guy offers you his bed he's going to hope and pray that sex will occur. He will definitely hope that you accepting his offer to share his bed means you'll share a night together in bed. Guys always have sex on the brain for the most part. Especially at night, with you right there in his apartment. Sheesh.

You're basically giving him the green light and the go-ahead. And if you don't want to have sexual relations, make sure he knows that up front. Since you are respectful, beautiful and classy.

Since you only had a couple kisses, he obviously knows he's not getting any. He's probably a little bit irked, but ultimately he respected your decision. Which was very gentlemanly.

Good luck.

[Alissonleigh]

She's waiting for the right time. She doesn't want to seem easy. As much as she probley wants The same thing you do. Its her decision. If she's sleeping in The same bed as you id say give her time and it will happen.

[ddancing]

she just believed you would be the gentleman you piose to be !

hope this helped :)

oh could you please answer my question on the man that stares at me I need more advice thank you !

[mandingo1203]

me personally I would offer the bed and say I would sleep on the couch. now if she said you can sleep next to me I would think maybe there is a chance to get some but I would wait for her to make the first move unless she had already gave some pretty good hints that there would be a chance. if she wanted to sleep next to me I would think there is a chance. I once offered my bed to a girl at a party that her friends had left her there. I offered to sleep on the floor. so after we both were in our places (her on my bed, me on the floor) she asked if she could have a glass of water. when I came back with the water she was naked under the covers. so naturally I jumped in the sack. haha

[WeaponZero]

I'd sleep on the couch, and it's not just if it was a girl. If I had any kind of guest and I didn't have a spare bed/bedroom, I'd take the couch and offer them the bed.