They start keeping their distance. The texts and calls are far, far fewer and become even more so every day or week. When you tell them you love them they may say they have to go, leave you on a long hold, or never reciprocate the words back. They stop sharing their work schedules with you and they start talking to more people of the opposite sex while leaving you on hold. If you have gotten past the early stages in a relationship and it's gotten serious then you need to be his top priority and he needs to be your's. If that's not the case the relationship is dead in the water.
Sometimes they get very cold they just don't want to be bothered no more or even talk communicate anymore I think the better question would be if this is the case what should you do about it first of all you can't make somebody love you you can't change anybody's mind this is the hardest part you have to accept it if you fight and argue to try to keep this person it'll get worse so can you stay your distance and accepted a little bit then that way you get to see who they really are and was it really all about I can explain more to you
Mine dumped me and made me homeless. Replaced me within 6 days.
Ignored all my texts and calls for a half a year.
He found my new address and posted a watch I gave him back to me
He started jogging past my house. Caught him 3 times, and he doesn't jog.
He then gave sweets to my ex to give to my kids for Christmas even though we hadn't spoke in 9 months.
He then moved back to England and left post it notes on the furniture I had left at his house that said 'free to help yourself'
Think this is pretty standard for me anyways.
It completely depends on the people in the relationship, how it ends and how they choose the behave. Some people have amicable break ups, others don't.
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Lack of respect, zero honest affection, you have the feel you're just good for one thing otherwise you're not really welcome.
If you want an example. You want to start a talk and your partner starts to play with phone. You had sex, your partner tells you some flat lie like "you know I love you" or 'I will always love you", turns away and falls asleep. You ask your partner "should we go to a party together" you get the reply "no, I'm tired it was a difficult week". 20 minutes later your partner gets a call from a friend and you partner tells you "I and X we go to a party" without inviting you...
I lost most interest and good chunk of compassion, stopped having sex with her a few months before the end and talked a lot about what I want from her and how much I insist on getting it. When the relationship ended, she was sad but absolutely not surprised.
I can't imagine pretending things are fine and then walking away all of a sudden. At least this longer predictable ending that is normal in case the end is because of problems, not because someone new and exciting is on the horizon.
. Becomes distance
. You notice a change in the way they dress, like if they used to dress in track pants and jumpers, but they are now getting dressed up, and wearing perfume and taking better care of themselves and their appearance
. They stop wanting to hang out with you
. Taking longer than usual to respond
I don’t want to have sex with you or be touched and your presence annoys me. I care less after arguments.
Is that your skin? Is it ok? Like strawberry spots I think it’s called?
I think the clearest sign is when the two start to pursue totally different goals.
The guy will argue a lot, no sex and acting totally disinterested.
why are you pushing so hard to end things? like you're flooring the gas pedal as hard as you can with the guy into a brick wall why? why are you trying to sabotage things? why are you self sabotaging?
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