Is this the end of the relationship?

[soz11122]

My partner and I are spending a lot of time with each other these days and I don't know if the reason is the amount of time but we started arguing a lot. I am a sensitive person and sometimes, he has some anger issues, and when he says something I feel hurt. Recently, we had a fight and he said no one would want me except for him. I couldn't say anything but leave the room. Then he came near me and apologized and talked about why he said that. I don't believe him, and now I am considering whether he is the right person for me or not. I still love him but... when he does this it really hurts. What should I do ?

[SphynxUK]

Anger issues are enough of an issue. Do you feel safe when he kicks off? Do you feel you can ask him to leave and calm down when he does that?
If he spoke to you once like this, it doesn’t bode well. He didn’t express why he was annoyed but instead said no one else would want you. I don’t think an angry partner has ever said anything like that to me. He’s putting you down and making out your worthless to others. What are you going to do about it? Your gut knows if he was genuine with his apology’.

[tireduck]

just going off the tiny bit of info given... I say still stay in the relationship and have an adult conversation with him about his reasons why he is reacting that way. Your gonna have to be able to confront this issue and not just let time pass just for him to apologize without any positive solution. You also should do some self-analyzing to see if you contribute to something unhealthy in the relationship.
But leave the relationship if you can't stand firm and confront him to get down to the issue. If you're too sensitive to handle this rocky point in your relationship then it's out of your capabilities to keep moving forward.

[SnowedIn]

I'm really sorry you're going through this. You ask at the end what you should do. I think you should end it with him. That's not an easy thing to hear but it doesn't sound like he's got your well being in mind.

[coachTanthony]

If you don't believe him or can't trust him then that is a no brainer. Always go with your gut. The shit just gets worse and you'll just start questioning everything he says and does.

[dustybiker]

If the one person that is supposed to have your back doesn’t there is no reason to stay with them.

Your partner is supposed to support you. Make you feel better about yourself.

Sure call you out when you need it, but honestly and from a place of compassion.

[Amy10223]

He is not the right person for you--nor anyone else who has good self-esteem And pride in herself. He sounds very much like a controlling, manipulative person who used insults to keep you dependent on him. Run from this guy. He will NOT change--that's what he is truly like.

[Jack0ff779]

I've had worse done to my two days ago. the woman i love posted a story about wanting sex from another guy (if you can even call him that more like boy is the appropriate term). so i know all to well how it feels to be hurt and betrayed and left in pain

[Anonymous]

Can't judge based on one post like this and not knowing the other side of the story. And neither should anyone else judge based on this one post. People are just making assumptions from a tiny bit of info.

[LazerBean]

It should be. He's angry and insecure and by all respects unfit to be in a relationship.

[boggboss]

Why wpuld u be with a person that feels so comftble treating u like shit

[Alex8736]

to be honestly blunt. walk away. from what you wrote it sounds like he is too controlling. that's just an opinion but do what you feel is best for you

[moonpie89]

Sounds like the end. Take some time to figure it out

[Anonymous]

If he has other good sides and he was caring and kind then probably it was just moment of anger and he did apologize so just accept his apologize. If he's abusive all the time then no way