Why am I always the rebound guy?

[gnargnar]

i've already been in a rebound situation twice already. Then just this week one of my friends who got out of a 2 year relationship a month ago decided to tell me she liked me and wanted to be more then friends. I learned from the first two that rebounds aren't good ideas, but this one is different because she ended the relationship. I really don't know what to tell her, and why am I always the rebound?

[Anonymous]

Because you're rushing things. Trying taking things slow

[gnargnar]

I didn't make the first move on any of them.

[Opinion Owner]

U didn't reject them either. If you're into this girl, take it slow.. that's the only way you'll be sure you're not being used as a rebound.