Why do I keep running into guys like this?

[Anonymous]

Why do I keep running into guys who are so quick to put you on a pedestal and praise you and have this immediate spark when you’re first getting to know them, and then one day they suddenly don’t like you anymore. Everything that they were feeling before they act like was never there and it almost always happens once I feel comfortable and opening up more to them. And these same guys will miss out on a decent woman and end up with some loud crazy person that gets on their nerves.

Why is the dating pool so saturated with this nonsense? It’s been getting harder and harder to trust anyone. Some guys would seem too good to be true just for them to make sure you don’t get a happy relationship out of them. It’s so draining.

[Fanfare690]

I wonder if they dip out because you arnt excited as they are at first. Or find someone else who is and it leads to sex... faster

[Asker]

That might be the case because I do become nervous when first meeting, but I’m always engaging in conversations. And yeah I feel like they also leave because they feel I won’t “give it up” for them immediately

[Fanfare690]

Right smh

[OneViewpoint]

Those guys like the excitement of the chase but when it gets real, they run away like the scared boys they are.

[Anonymous]

It sounds like you're dating the wrong people.

[Kaneki05]

It's called limerence. Those guys had it.

[Danny_dan92]

Looking in the wrong places

[Gaylordslav]

They find out you suck